Hey guys, I need some advice on how I could have taken advantage on a situation I just encountered.

I was called to a house party by one of my female friends, but when I got there things were going pretty lame. While i was talking to my friend and another of her guy friends, most of the party moved next door. There were about 5 or 6 average to good looking girls left on the couch as I was talking to my friends.

The problem was that they were hanging together, I was with the guy at this point just chatting about nothing, pretty bored. I could tell that they were pretty bored as well. I knew I should open them, but I kept thinking of how awkward it would be for some random guy they never knew to just start a convorsation about something. I thought about how lame this whole thing was and trying to start a convo would just make me seem desparate.

My question is what would you do in this good situation??? How would you initaite a convorsation, with that many females? If it was two or three-on-one it would be different (you wouldn't have 5 sets of eyes watching you and waiting for you to drive the convorsation forwards).

Cheers, thanks for advice,


MichaelAngelo

I think I would have played Neil's 5 question game. You have 5 questions and 5 chicks. And if they lose they all have to kiss you. And if you lose you will buy all drinks next time yall go out.

That was the first thing that came to my mind and I go with instincts!

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ahhh noo dont feel awkward at all. I would see that as a chance to make the swoop, like the person above me said try the 5 questions game or something. The way i see it is that they are still at the party because they want to get something going or meet some new people. take your chance the worst thing that can happen is they will turn you down, but you will more than likely come out on top. get some confidence and go for it

If the setting was low-energy, you don't have to jump up and do a circus act. You could just start into a DHV routine, and act like a storyteller. Here's what I did in a similar situation- I hope it helps:

(It's about 11:30, at a friend's house. I'm in a mixed set, 2 girls, one guy.)

Me: "It's so quiet... It's putting me in a really philosophical mood... Do any of you know anything about mind reading? (Go into the ESP Test.)

That was pretty cool, too bad mind reading doesn't work. It's nothing but psychology. You know, psychology is a fascinating subject. Let me show you... (Go into The Cube.)

You see, I'm a sucker for deep thought. I like learning stuff that helps you connect with people. Don't you feel a connection? I mean, I can know more about you just by looking at your handwriting. Want me to show you? Here... (Go into Handwriting analysis.)"

I was the center of conversation for about 2 hours. If they don't know you, it works to your advantage to be a bit off-the-wall. You can give them the impression that you are some kind of mystic. The next time you're in a situation like that, use weaknesses to your advantage. (The lame-ness, them not knowing you, etc.)

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Alright, here is a more simple concept. There's alot of girl right? That means alot of emotional opinions right? Ask them all for an opinion on something doesnt matter what. Ask them about what they think of Brittney Spears right now. Doesn't matter just go open them. The size of a set doesn't matter. Its your presentation. Did you seem friendly and cool? Did you have a hidden agenda? It was the perfect opportunity to test your ability to hold other's attention. After opening them start telling DHV stories. Or ask how everyone knows each other and feed off what they say. There was 5 of them, they would have something to say. It would have just come down to how you acted.

Next time take that leap of faith. At worst you fail, and you rise to try again. At best you can take your pick of 5 women or a couple of them