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PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 6:45 am 
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I just fucked up I think,so went out to talk to her and talked about all of our stuff. Then I ended up asking for her number, feeling like it was a little surreal what I was doing (I don't know why, still I didn't care). She said no but she said add me on shitbook. Failed


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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 7:00 am 
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It happens. The good thing is that you know that you don't have to waste anymore time on her.

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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 7:03 am 
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I don't know man.. I want a comeback, since I made a good impact before. Maybe it happens to have a bad frame of mind.. I don't know man. What's for sure is im not going to add her


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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 7:10 am 
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Truthfully, I'd love to hear someone that has met a girl, asked for her phone number, was rejected, instead given some kind of social media alternative, and ended up on at least a date with the girl.

My thinking on the subject is if a girl is into me she wouldn't want to give me something less than I asked for. I'm not saying it's impossible, but I haven't heard anyone do that yet.

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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 7:44 am 
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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 7:51 am 
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Neither have I and you make all good points but.. I started the conversation like a beast, havig all under control until that moment. I felt like when you have a battery drain on your phone and the time is running out and you gotta be quick, that was also making me shift from "hit" to "shit" so it went out a little bit shitty and ended up failing. I should've been more involed in that conversation. I don't wanna overanalyze it cause that's not the way of getting out of it as a winner, but my pride has been hit, she's in advantage and I wanna revive, go back to where I had her involved.

R.C. you are also right man, but unfortunately I'm not one who gives up quick in life.

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Useless thinking of the fact that she took the phone in her hands was about to type.. but she just like forced herself to say no. Still I failed guys.


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PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 12:03 pm 
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Neither have I and you make all good points but.. I started the conversation like a beast, havig all under control until that moment. I felt like when you have a battery drain on your phone and the time is running out and you gotta be quick, that was also making me shift from "hit" to "shit" so it went out a little bit shitty and ended up failing. I should've been more involed in that conversation. I don't wanna overanalyze it cause that's not the way of getting out of it as a winner, but my pride has been hit, she's in advantage and I wanna revive, go back to where I had her involved.

R.C. you are also right man, but unfortunately I'm not one who gives up quick in life.

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Useless thinking of the fact that she took the phone in her hands was about to type.. but she just like forced herself to say no. Still I failed guys.

Why would your focus NOT be on how to replicate "starting the conversation like a beast" as opposed to recovering with one chick? Call me crazy, but if I magically made $100k appear and I lost it, I'd spend most of my time trying to make $100k appear again and again, instead of tracking down where I left the first $100k.


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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
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R.C. you are also right man, but unfortunately I'm not one who gives up quick in life.
Obsessing over one person and refusing to acknowledge there's beautiful women all around you is exactly giving up.

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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2016 5:47 pm 
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I.. do not... want.. to believe.. that. So I just came back home and, I've read the R.C. comment before but wasn't able to respond. So my post now changes because something different JUST happened since I spoke the last time. I was just mad as shit at this failure that I didn't notice I am actually gaining something from this PUA thing, started few weeks ago. Like I said, I went mad and didn't notice I was giving 200% because of my pride. What do I do? I go talk to a girl I met a month ago, even though I didn't even speak to her in a month. I was pure fire, and trust me I had some good shit before this PUA thing started and now I'm just sharpening what I had thanks to you guys. So after I talked to this girl, that I don't even actually like,uhm now I get a fb request out of nowhere and I was expecting to be the first girl, the girl that told me to add her on facebook earlier this morning. But it wasn't her, it was this second girl that just found me on the net without even knowing my name and having nothing in common.. like stalking me. By the way, speaking of the girl that denied to give me the her # (let's call her NegBitch) I just thought.. well since she insisted telling me "facebook" like twice or more times, I just thought.. maybe she was telling me "one thing at a time, this is the third time you talk to me and you're already going for my number".. I don't know, I still can't accept this failure.. maybe tomorrow this anger will be gone, who knows. What I know now is that I next time I meet NegBitch, I'm turning to NegAsshole.


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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2016 3:02 am 
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I don't know, I still can't accept this failure.. maybe tomorrow this anger will be gone, who knows. What I know now is that I next time I meet NegBitch, I'm turning to NegAsshole.
You're needy.

You're far too invested in getting validation by this woman, and you don't even know her well. You've subconsciously put her on a pedestal and want to win her approval. Thus, you've involuntarily made yourself needy and low status as a result. There are lots of girls in the world man, move on.


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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
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OP you sound like a sexually frustrated virgin.

NegBitch. Lol. Quit being such a damn geek. You have a long road ahead of you.

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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2016 9:41 am 
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I don't know.. feels like an itis


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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2016 10:02 am 
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What a tweak.....


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 Post subject: Re: So fucked up
PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2016 5:29 pm 
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Every approach doesn't turn into a fairy tale movie bro.

Sometimes you get the "take my email" sometimes you make a great connection, she offered her number without you asking, and then she disappears and you never hear from her again. Its all apart of the game. Get used to it. Approaching women is about defining your own character; the lays you get are just the icing on the cake.

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