Hi, Im having trouble reading this girls signals. She is really shy and inexperienced, she is a gamergirl and dresses like one (hoodie etc).. Anyway she wanted my snapchat after we met, she lives a few hrs away (school) and is moving back to my location in 2 months. Anyway game on via text I thought. Im not the typical gamer guy, im more into fitness, sports, experience life etc.. Found out she had a bf, which she broke up with a few weeks after we met (long distance with hardcore gamer guy).. When we met IRL she gave me tons of iois ( was fun to observe) staring at me from the corner of her eye, fiddling with her hair, stuttering when trying to talk to me, excuses to touch me, proximity etc. Anyway, I re opened her on snap after a few weeks. Pretend internet gf, lets get married etc.. She was really in to it! Did some more roleplay and she followed. I switched to comfort since she is so shy and awkward and stayed here just a little bit longer than I usually do, to try to get her comfortable with me. Talked on SPAM and she was super hyped to talk to me, I just stayed for an hr, said I had stuff to take care of, after that she has tryed to get me to game several times with her and her online buddyboys..After comfort I tryed to implement some subtle sexual innuendos. Here she just fails to understand and carry it. She can just ignore it and reply with a picture and text relating to something else. Did some subtle flirting here she takes it better. Point is she sucks at flirting/carry over text, when I try to subtle escalate she replies with something else most of the time. She always initiates snap, somehow im on her 1st place and vice versa, but when trying to escalate, example "Me; Well now you lost some points how can I forgive you now? She; please forgive me I do anything!! Me; Im sure you can figure something out, just dont abuse me! Her; Sends pic of her fucking mountain dews, I tell her shes boring and she replies that she has bad fantasy. I exit with telling her that its her turn to surprise me then she says "ill try my best" she always have pretty boring texts, this was just one example, but you get the idea. Is she just weak to carry those type of convos due to her socialskills? This girl is also your typical online attention whore, craving attention from her guy gang online. Sometimes she replies with just a few words, Ive started doing the same, mirroring her text style. Is this a good idea or should I switch back more to comfort stage and friendly talk? I dont wanna be her text buddy who she can send shit to when she is bored. I should distance myself more, thoughts? Shes 20 im 24.
...should I reply to her with minimal effort until she gets back home?

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As a suggestion. Also get bolder. make it quite clear of your intentions.

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If she likes experience the things in internet, you should ask for naked pics for her. Try to use web cam chat and do some adult jokes.

Next time if she says how foe your forgiveness, demand her to send you topless pics.

Anyways, her character does not fit you, why are keeping to have a relationship with her?

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If I get any more clear with my intensions I am sure she will go wallflower mode, and not reply or ignore my attempt, due to the fact she alrdy isnt used to anyone of her online buddyboys talking to her like I already do. She wouldnt handle it. I will scare her off. Thats why I am wondering if I should gay text her so she gets comfortable with me more, or go silent and step up my show less interest/effort texts so she starts to wonder why I dont text her like I usually do, flirty/bantering/fun vibe.
She also seems shy of her body, Ive never seen anything close go revealing. She almost dress like a boy, haha. Shes really cute, almost a 8, but she doesnt know this herself. We share some of the same interests aswell thats why i am testing her out. She get tons of online attention from the gamer guys online tho, typical chode stuff. Thats also a reason why I think to step down my text game atleast until she gets back home in 2 months? So she wonder why this guy is different suddenly? Thoughts?

She also wanted me to come see her again, but its 4 hrs away so that wont happen. Ive teased her about it when she couldnt get her pants off if she needed help and when. She replied "now!!!".. damn maybe i should be more bold and clear haha, its just that sometimes she doesnt put any effort in her texts. And that makes me wonder. Also that she never starts with flirting herself, its like I have to really push for it, that plus all the gamer boys giving her all the attention so Im just another one of the herd, I dunno makes me confused! Never had prob with escalating via texts before, but this one just cant carry

[quote="Smygen"]If I get any more clear with my intensions I am sure she will go wallflower mode, and not reply or ignore my attempt, due to the fact she alrdy isnt used to anyone of her online buddyboys talking to her like I already do. She wouldnt handle it. I will scare her off. Thats why I am wondering if I should gay text her so she gets comfortable with me more, or go silent and step up my show less interest/effort texts so she starts to wonder why I dont text her like I usually do, flirty/bantering/fun vibe.
She also seems shy of her body, Ive never seen anything close go revealing. She almost dress like a boy, haha. Shes really cute, almost a 8, but she doesnt know this herself. We share some of the same interests aswell thats why i am testing her out. She get tons of online attention from the gamer guys online tho, typical chode stuff. Thats also a reason why I think to step down my text game atleast until she gets back home in 2 months? So she wonder why this guy is different suddenly? Thoughts?[/quote

Too much drama... Be clear with your emotions, invite her out grab her ass, make her wet.

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You are hopeless. Masturbate yourself with less effort. 4 hours bla bla bla.

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I agree. I should slap her ass via text and make her wet with my jedi powers. Just never had this type of text situation before, I should maybe be more clear yes, and set the date til she gets back. Thought that wasnt the case with really shy girls, thought one had to build high level of comfort first.

She has already comfort by sitting on her ass everyday in front of computer. Forget that comfort shit, you already have it. Be more mean by texting.

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I assume you want to fuck this girl, not marry her, or be her 'gamer pal'.

My question to you is, if she's is not recipient to your goal, why continue to waste time?

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I just skimmed it but damn man... Is there anything good here? Sure she's not a cripple too?

The best thing to do is to avoid these kinds of women. Your interest in her just completely shows that you don't have much going for you in your life that you enjoy. When you're living an enjoyable life you don't waste too much time on people and things that aren't making you happy.

You want the girl online constantly seeking validation from men? There are alternatives bro.

You're on a pick up forum.

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Yeah, time for the good next move and focus on the other ones. Shes way to boring / passive for me anyway. Ty guys, I needed some outside perspective.