Disagreeing with Jack today
I think this is mostly OP. I missed the emotional issue part and my read was that OP was the one who emotionally was in the wrong.
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The conversation started well like usual. Eventually, she said she had an exam tomorrow and I said I’d help her.
To me thats a hint that she's gotta go. She has to really study or she is just tired of talking. But you shouldnt have offered help and just let her get off the phone.
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So I helped her with a couple practice questions over the phone.. then eventually, she said “I don’t really need any help you know”, I didn’t take it on and continued talking, then she went on to ask me to help with another question.
Again, hint to let her get off the phone.
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Honestly, I thought she was being a little disrespectful, but maybe I’m overreacting.
You persisted with the conversation and your help which she didnt ask for nor sounds like it was needed. She's giving you hints to get off the phone
I dont know if she has issues, but when you're so needy and a girl blocks you, you make it hard for someone else to distinguish what is her overreacting and you just breaking the last straw of neediness. My guess is from the way you persisted in a phone conversation, she just got turned off and nexted you. You brushed past a girls hints to get off the phone and when she gets short..now SHE's disrespectful? All this should have been was:
HER: I have an exam tomorrow
YOU: Cool, I got xyz later so should let you prepare.
Not:
HER : I have an exam tomorrow
YOU: Oh I'll help you with something you never asked for my help on! Stay on the phone!
Maybe she'll come back around, but regardless, next time a girl tells you something, dont just offer your help like that and "continue talking" when she says she doesnt need help. Shit is a red flag for a seriously needy dude and many girls will just take that cue to walk away if you're showing this after 2 lays.