So I texted this girl I used to have some classes with (she switched schools a couple of months ago) just to see how she was doing bc I hadn't seen her in a while. While still attending the same college we were flirting for a while and made out a couple of times but nothing more than that and I never really asked her out on a real date even though she was the one chasing me for weeks. So she ended up seeing someone else and things cooled off. Alright, too slow, but then she also indicated that she doesn't date my type anyway so I don't know if she said that just to fuck with me or if she just wanted something very casual. Or just some attention, which I stopped paying to her at this point. Then things got a bit awkward when seeing each other in classes and we barely spoke. She transferred shortly after and we didn't have any contact up until now. Anyway, after like two days she responds and wants to meet up for a drink. Didn't expect that but I'm like alright, told her I couldn't make it that week though, so I message her a few days later on a sunday and tell her tuesday is good for me. She tells me she might have plans that day but will let me know if she can make it. Haven't heard from her since and it's been a week. Do I wait for her to contact me or what? I'm kinda reluctant about sending another message.

Yes.

And next time don't hit women up today if you can only see them 2 weeks from now. Should be obvious.

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she was the one that asked but didn't say a specific time, i really had a lot of shit going on then. is that flaking? i didn't plan on setting up a meeting when i texted her

You just wanted a text buddy?

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If we divide the shit to priority, u chose the things that ypu believe you should do. And seems like you lost your chance here to meet up with that chick.

You should wait till she reachs you out. Best thing you can do is, if you have fb of her, share what she likes in ordee to remind yourself.

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Nah, I don't do that. She just kinda popped into my head one day and I wanted to see how she was doing. I figured she lost interest a while ago. Maybe the timing was stupid.

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Classic phone tag.

Bordem texting for people who haven't cut to the chase, made their intentions clear, and formed a connection. Its just in the air man. Theres no direction. You aren't taking the bull by the horns, and she's reflecting your uncertainty right back to you.

Give this a read: pua-lounge/topic190620.html

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It wasn't more than a week but point taken.
Good stuff, I'm not completely getting it in this context yet though. I guess what you are also saying is stop being a pussy and be direct. Does it make sense to just wait until she contacts me again then?