Have you not read a single thing that anybody has said above?

I did read the replies and I appreciate the inputs. She's a really good friend of m8ne and it's unfortunate that she only sees me as a friend. I like her so much that I think of her all the time. I'm not sure if you're gonna agree with me but the only solution I found isnot to contact her for few months and cancel on her so she'll be in an emotional state for cancelling it. Also, hopefully by doing so, I will take up mental space and she'll wonder what's going on cause she also knows that I was looking forward for it and all of the sudden I'll just cancel it like that without explain8ng why. Then I'll distant myself for few months no c9ntact or whatsoever with her. Now tell me if this is ok

This reminds me of that Seinfeld episode where George discovers this girl he likes has a partner who looks like him.

So she's found someone else and you'd already invested yourself. So you'd waited 2 years to express interest in her? Next time escalate more quickly, even better find a girl you're attracted to from the getgo.

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Unless she's a gold digger you'll quickly repulse her with such placating, validation-seeking behavior. It's one thing to take a girl out for a fun evening who you are actually dating, another entirely doing so with hopes she'll swoon for you. Truly money can't buy love. Let this be a lesson learned.

Not to mention all your little behaviors towards her were done out of an intent that she owes you something in return. A lot of women are hip to this sort of thing and will either go along with it to get a free meal/stuff for a bit, or feel so uncomfortable they'll think up excuses to not see the guy. Very rare they'll outright tell them where they stand and put the brakes on things right away before he gets too carried away.

She's not going to give you anything more than friendship, ever. Healthy thing to do is to grieve and free up your own mental space so you can find someone who wants a romantic relationship with you.

You treat her as if she is your girlfriend, but she is not. You also expect her to behave in a certain way and when she doesn't, you get upset. She is just as much a human being like you are, and she makes mistakes just like you do. She wants to live her life the way she lives it, so let her. And live your own life the way you like it. But don't expect anyone to be a mind reader and understand that sometimes life simply sucks. And we all fail. And we all make mistakes. And relationships are not easy. Do your very best and communicate with her and that's it. She is not the only person in this planet. So, at least consider increasing the number of female friends you know.

Consider the following:

1. Contact her again and explain to her what you have purchased.
2. Contact her as if nothing has happened.
3. Don't contact her again and move on in your life.

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Update:
I know and have a feeling that I'm gonna get burned for this from you guys but this is what happened. I planned to take my ex to that dinner and show cause were still good friends however on that day of the dinner, her mom got rushed into the hospital and she's the only support person so she have to stay with her mom. It left me no choice but the call the girl I mentioned on the previous post that if she still want to go and she said yes, cause I don't want to waste my money if I don't go. It was going great at first but all of the sudden for celebration announcement during the show, they announce my ex's name and greeted belated happy mother's day and things got really awkward after that. I totally forgot that when I rebooked the tickets they asked me for special announcement and that's what I've told them. She knows my ex and she asked me why did they mention her name? she was so puzzled. All I said is I don't know maybe she called and tell them to announce that cause she knows were coming here and she's the one supposed to be with me (I honestly don't know what to say so I just bs my reason). We finished the show, but while driving her home, I wasn't in the mood at all cause I kinda get pissed in the situation so I wasn't talking at all and I was just ignoring her, stopped touching her, I didn't show interest on her anymore. And she can vibe that cause she looks worried and I'm not answering back when she's talking it's like she's a ghost. I was driving fast to drop her off cause I just want to get out of that situation. I didn't even said bye to her I just drove off right away as soon she as she gets out my car. I know it bothered and puzzled her for that. Question is, should I apologise to her about my actions or just leave it like that?

do whatever you wanna do

I was planning not to contact her anymore but I feel like a jerk and don't end it that way because she's a really good friend of mine also. I just don't know what to say for being emotional. I even deactivated my facebook so it will untag all the pics of me and her that I tagged before.

Stop being a girl.

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there is a point right there,stop being a fucking girl,everyone already told you,risk loosing her as a friend or stay a friend and nothing else,i wouldn't waste my time on her when there is about 3.5 billion girls out there,she is nothing special