Hi everyone,

I approached a girl reading her book at the coffee shop today, She was really attractive to me and after I had ordered my food and simply went up to her and said "hi you're really pretty are you a regular?" she smiled and said nope shes from Nome, AK and down here for some training for a few weeks.(I live in Anchorage Ak )

She offered me to have a seat and we started getting to know each other.We got off on a great foot for some reason. I eventually asked her if she was down to go out sometime and she said yes, I didn't have my phone so she handed hers and I put in my information. After that I left and texted her about an hour later saying nice meeting you and she said the same.

I dont know where to go from here I already threw out the offer that we should hang out, I feel like I rather wait for her text now and see where it goes?

I cant even tell if she was into me or not (I hope she was because she was pretty hot in a nerdy way) She smiled and laughed alot while we talked and offered me to have a seat with her, but she may have been just looking for a good time I dont know.

What do you guys think? What would you do in my shoes?

Would have tried to get her to agree to go out the same night right there and then on the spot. Asking her when she'd be free would also have been an option. IME...women make spontaneous plans when on trips.

If I were you, I'd find something to do and then text her tomorrow to find out if she's down to do it with you.

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I think thats where I messed up she hinted early in the conversation she mentioned that she was going alone to watch the jungle book. We immediately started talking about each other and it was strange how good the chemistry was right off the bat. towards the end of the convo I kind of hinted at her that I could join her but she said if you're not into the jungle book its fine and then said 'Its on you if you" So I kinda felt like I was being pushy and kind of pushed it to the side. She did say we would be down to hang out later this week. She leaves on the 21st of this month.

She seems like a super chill person and not much of a bar/club type girl.

Could throw any ideas?

Wait a day and if you haven't heard from her, you ask her out for a drink. If she is not into drinking then something else that can lead her to your bed (no big dinners, lunches etc.)

What Jack said.

Text her something light and fun, banter a couple of messages and ask her out. Fast.

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lame i hit her up today and no response lol, I think I was too anxious when I was conversing with her. Im sure that is a major turn off for women when meeting a guy. She was just nice by nature i guess. The plus side is I finally ran into my cute neighbor and got her number. So we are texting back and forth right now well see where this goes.

My question is though, what are some deal breakers for women that men should practice AVOIDING?

Feeling anxious, stuttering(Been stuttering since i was a kid lame), coming off too energetic?

Those three are my issues I think.

She invited you to tag along to the movies and you turned it down. Don't do that if you are interested in her.

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She didnt give me an invite though? She only mentioned she was going by herself. When would a good looking girl invite a guy to the movies with her when she doesent even know him?

I must be missing something here. I cant tell when to just strike because ive gone that route and it just makes women uncomfortable and out of fear they kinda show it. But here I couldnt tell

Or,

Say directly, that you have free time on x at y.

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She gave you her number dude.. What do you mean you cannot tell if she was into you or not?

Call the girl and set up a date to hang out before she leaves. You're thinking too much. Call her bro. Call her now.

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yea she gave me her number but I hit her up yesterday and she didnt respond. Something tells me she just got turned off after we first met or something I dont know. lol Maybe I didn't pick up on her subtle hints perhaps? lol I need more practice at this, woman act super nice and interested in me when we meet but it just dies off the next day from what Ive experienced so far. I dont want to say its cuz of my intimidating looks but it has to be something about me that makes them think twice after our initial meeting.

I am thinking too much as well, but going the straight up route never works it scares woman away. I live in alaska so it must be a thing woman do out here I dont know lol


edit: I think I may act too excited or interested at first which in turn has them less interested.