Hi

The last couple of weeks, I've seen a group of hot girls come into a bar I go to. It's a stylish place, sort of a 'pre club' type of place and I've seen this group twice. They stay about an hour, then leave.

There are 3 of them, 2 are HB9 blondes, the other a gorgeous HB10 Latin looking brunette. All look mid to late 30's. Groups of guys approach them, but only guys of their age group and they seem to be sent packing in short order. I'd like to approach with my mates, lads my own age, early to mid 20's, but they are having none of it. Say we'd get blown away if we try. My view is better that than not try at all, so it looks like I'm on my own here.

Approaching is the weakest part of my game and if wasn't for my good looks (sorry, sounds boastful but not intended to be), my overall success would be very weak. Plus 3 hot women in their 30's is scary too! Probably married, but must at least try, so any tips welcome

CanaryLad

The Cougar hawk is a gentleman first. A master of etiquette. Confidant. Bold.

Ask them if they are in town for the 'Saved by The Bell' event.

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What's the 'Saved by the Bell' event?

Looks like it's USA, I'm from London, UK and I think these 3 girls work near the bar

Anyhow, they were at the bar last night.

Approached, kept it simple as follows

Me: "Hi ladies, I'm Mike" Confident smile from me, gentle touch on each of the 3 girl's shoulders
HB9 Blonde "For Christs sake, pick on somebody your own age!" - I'm 25 but look even younger
HB10 Latin Girl "Sarah, give the guy a chance, he's only doing what guy's do!"

Anyhow started conversations and 2 other guys, older, moved in. 2 Blondes cold with lots of bitch shields and shit tests, not nice. HB10 very warm and friendly, so after about 10 mins get bold and lead gently away on her own. She's really down to earth for an HB10, name's Marie, 39 years old, single and she's well spoken English born and bred, but with an Italian father. No shit tests, bitch shields, mention of the age gap.

Get some gentle kino going and tell her she's sexy. She loves it as if no ones ever told that before, tells me that I'm cute stroking the outside of my arm. Then the 2 blondes come back. "Gotto go, taxi outside" they say. I quickly get Marie's number and off they all go

Will text her tomorrow, so maybe a date with the hottest woman I've ever met!

Wish other HB9's and 10's were that easy to talk to!

CanaryLad
London UK

awesome!
How did you get on after that?

OK so far

I texted her the following day, keeping it as bold as possible.

Me: "Hi Gorgeous! You said when we met you liked ten pin bowling, so let's go for it either next Tue or Wed eve at say 7pm. Meet you there?"

Her - 2hrs later "Hi Cutie! Love to come, but off on holiday with some girlfriends on Mon. Got 10 days in a villa in Ibiza, before all the clubs get going, so nice and relaxing. But how about Tue 17th or Wed 18th at 7pm, and meet you there?"

Me "Great, let's go for Tue 17th. Enjoy Ibiza!"

Her - "Thanks, sea, sun and lots of talent apparently!"

So a date, but her last comment indicates she's a lady looking for fun and not an exclusive relationship. That's fine with me. Think maybe she's been in a relationship and doesn't want another at the moment

Very chilled lady for a hottie, but maybe that's because she's older. Can't imagine her doing a shit test, she probably thinks that's what nurses do!

Sounds DTF. Bounce from bowling, to pub, to your place to check out your Star Wars figures. Keep some wine on hand.

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Yeh, hopefully DTF, but a while to go yet before our date. Need to keep getting out there

My usual game has worked so far on this lady which is

Simple approach - Hi, I'm ...... etc
Look for IOI, often before I approach
Confident manner, look to kino early on
Compliment the girl on her style, her dress, her voice
Close, get her number

Trouble is that if it doesn't go to plan, I don't have a plan B. Such as "I have a partner" objections. Seeing some of these top PAU's in action on the "Infield" videos shows how much I have to learn and how well some of these guys think on their feet. I've often had top PAU's come in and steal my targets. Also different situations. I'm not good at groups with other guys in them, seated groups, day game, very loud music at clubs. So hoping to learn from this site!

Search this site for 'she says she has a boyfriend' Type stuff. It could be true or it may not. But typically she's slamming on your brakes.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.