Come on guys, be serious. I'm not scrutinizing her every move in life. In fact I don't want anything to do with her, I have removed her from facebook, and all other social media, I never speak about her with mutual friends we have in common, etc.

Basically remove and forget, and my focus goes towards other women. Trying my best to get over this obsession, and the longer it goes without having gotten any new information about her life, the less I think about her.

But when her car is suddenly parked right outside my home, my mind is thrown around for a spin.

But perhaps you're right. Since we didn't have a mutual oneitis on each other, perhaps this whole thing is much less of an emotional impact on her, and she doesn't really give a fuck? Perhaps I'm not really in her awareness at all, and bumping into me for her would have been like just whatever, but to me it would have been a big fucking deal....

Yes, I was obsessed, I still am, and I'm still learning about this whole process, dynamic, etc, and that is why I'm venting my frustrations about it on a pua forum.

Key her car..

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Yeah, perhaps I should. She knew this was really difficult for me, and she certainly played around with my feelings and manipulated me for her own entertainment, even though she knew I had totally fallen for her.

The message was clear, honest and respectful. Basically: "This is so difficult for me that I have to do what is necessary in order to forget you since you don't want to take it further with me. I care about you and love you deeply, but we can no longer be friends."

And now she keeps parking outside my home?

Fucking bitch.

Mate, I have just read all your posts

Every single one of them revolves around a oneitus with a girl that doesn't like you sexually

Yes, evidently you're using this forum to vent and not as a vehicle for progress

You are not taking the bull by the horns, you're not proactive at your sticking points are you? You will continue to get what you are getting if you do not change your whole mindset

Solution?

- Meet wings or
- Pay for training
- Approach copious amounts of women that will earn you reference points and valuable experiences

Get the fuck to work and stop using us as therapists, we're here to help you with your game. Not to empathise with you

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Next time you care so deeply for a woman, fuck her. They like that way better than flowers, chocolate, cards, and gifts.

Sharing a bed with a girl without trying to fuck her, is like applying super glue to her pussy with a paint roller.

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Keep venting OP....


you will get over it eventually. You on some Drake shit right now.


"you use to call me on my chellphoneeee "

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Lol!

Exactly.

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Well, thanks for you honesty. You're totally right. It is time to take up gaming again. To my defense I have to say that if you read about my previous oneitus, that after that one I actually started gaming pretty heavily and had sex with 5 girls, but of course I got into a new oneitus with this new girl I couldn't get, and my mind and focus was totally fucking drained.

It sounds so crass, but it's true.

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She's probably banging the entire rugby team who practice at a nearby field; hence, she always parks her car near your apartment. This is just a carefully calculated guess, of course.

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Maybe she'd met someone else in the building/block.