hey!

I was in a bad shit friendzone situation for 9 months with a girl I a strong oneitis on. We sometimes kissed, flirted a lot, and we often slept in each other bed (without anything more happening) and had a sort of strong soul mate type of bonding, but somehow she would keep a sexual distance to me...... So eventuelly I couldn't help myself but had to do the talk, so we ended up ending our relationship. This was 3 months ago.

Now, this evening it is the 3rd time in a month I see her car parked right outside of my appartment building. Like what the fuck?

I now it sounds lame, but it really disturbs me. If she don't want me, wouldn't it be polite to not remind me of her existence in this way. I know we could met each other at our local pub, or trough mutual friends, or something like that, but this is fucking right outside my home. I can even see her car from where my living room window where I spent time in front of my computer.....

Any comments?

Does she want me to start chasing her again or something??

Is it a public car place or your private parking?

If it's the former, why give a shit, she'd be forgotten the 4 seconds I ended the 'friendship'

It seems like you're just staring out of your window, perhaps wasting your time on something that doesn't need to affect you? why is her car there? Do you live near her work or something? Or she is banging your next door neighbour?

If she is parking in your car space = LOL - then you got used, son - Tell her to jog on

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It is a public car place, like a street parking

Not near her job at all.

I think she is dating someone in my street, and that she is missing the power she had over me, and in a strange way wants to punish me by smearing it in my face, or get me to start chasing her again, or somehow wants some drama going with me.....

I know I should just ignore it.... But it feels like she in a very subtle way is totally disrespecting my boundaries, and I don't know what to do to stand up for myself.... Probably ignoring is best, but I feel more like taking the air out of her tires or something.....

Go away, evil psycho-bitch!

Hehe.....

You could not park your car in her garage, but she does. Hmmm interesting.

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I think you're reading too much into it. She probably cuddled with you and went over to bang someone down the street. But that is my personal opinion.....



honestly, oh well. You get over this oneitis thing and you won't really care. You have to build a tolerance to running into girls you've "known" or you were not made for this game.... let it go.

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Oneitis is bad shit.

Couldn't sleep well this night because her car is parked here for the night.

Feels pretty lame...

Seems really inconsiderate.

Yeah that's absolutely the reason why she's parking the car there.

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Lol. She's fucking someone nearby and just parking there. Thats more likely than a girl who has the power wasting her time and messing with you. I mean, she PARKED her car. Meaning she's doing something or someone nearby thats unrelated to you.

I mean unless you think she's parking and hiding in the bushes so her car would fuck with you. Lol, also with so many cars these days I couldnt tell you if a chick was parking her car oustide because I cant distinguish between one girls car and the ten other same models and years I see daily. Did you memorize her plate? This is all a big stretch to think she'd actually even think you'd see it in a spot thats not yours and remember it.

Well, first time she stood there, she walked by and up to the car when me and a friend of mine was standing outside on the balcony. I remember the two first letters in the license plate and the big damage in the front of her car.

Well, I'm sure she is fucking someone nearby, or something like that, but perhaps she'd like to smear it in my face at the same time? Like I rejected our friendship, so why not mess around a little bit with me since she's in the hood anyways?

This thread should serve as a warning sign against oneitis. Don't get it! It's messing with your head!

Agreed, i think in your case, you haven't got oneitus like the OP evidently has

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And why would she give a fuck exactly?

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She is getting railed by his neighbour and she is oblivious to the OP scrutinising her every move in life including where she parks her car after she has cum dribbling down her leg

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He held the door to her vagina open for the new guy. She was grateful. She does owe him a meatloaf I suppose.

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