So I got an issue I seem to either be too nice or too much of a dick. What I hate the most is when a girl figures out you're a nice guy they either see that as a sign your're inferior and girls looking for something serious will go after or a hot chick will dump quickly.

What are some general guidelines or typical everyday tips a nice guy can go over so he doesn't get put into that zone? I am a bit socially awkward so that adds a bit more of the niceness to it. I just graduated college with a tough degree so i plan to work on my social life again now.

Thanks for any input!

You ask for how to balance yourself? I do not have magic stick bro. Best thing is approach to more women, you van balance yourself, not us. It is a pretty newbie question.

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If you're socially inept, then that will be a problem. Otherwise, all you have to do is be comfortable being you. Nice guy or too much of a dick unless you are a pushover or a guy that pushes away. People that know me in person think I'm a nice guy but they know they can't push me around.

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what I hate the most I guess is when a girl figures out you're a nice guy and tries to expect pushover tendencies from you. That pisses me off the most but then again I need to break out of my shell and get out there more i guess.

Good replies by everybody appreciate it.

Stop being a supplicant tool. There, problem solved.

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