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PostPosted: Sat Apr 30, 2016 12:46 am 
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Thanks for your advice, although I can't completely agree. Would you recommend me going no contact completely then?


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You have NOT escalated and you're expecting her to miss you with no contact? What would she miss from you by that? Free lunches, free drinks, attention? If you have escalated, she's going to miss that horny feeling she gets when you're around.

You're just wasting time. Sex or the anticipation of sex is one of the most potent emotions of mankind. It's so potent that women all over the world spend billions of dollars on porn; way much higher than what men spend on porn. And yet you're just offering her attention and no anticipation for sex.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 30, 2016 1:04 am 
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Hmm I assumed she likes me more than purely sexually... I'm still fairly new to all this. I appreciate all the help guys. What do you suggest then?


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Hmm I assumed she likes me more than purely sexually... I'm still fairly new to all this. I appreciate all the help guys. What do you suggest then?
Hold her hand.

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PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2016 3:08 am 
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Haha okay, will so next time I get the opportunity!
Haven't spoken to her since Friday, apart from a snapchat of her with facepaint on saying something about colour (as I take the piss out of her for only wearing black as I mentioned earlier). Should I give her a message or wait till I bump into her on campus?


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PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2016 7:48 am 
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Fucks sake you bonehead. She likes you in any way BUT sexually.

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PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2016 2:01 pm 
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Spoke to a mutual friend of ours who said she was in a long term relationship which ended two years ago, and hasn't actually been with a guy since. Does this mean I should change my approach?


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PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2016 10:53 pm 
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Spoke to a mutual friend of ours who said she was in a long term relationship which ended two years ago, and hasn't actually been with a guy since. Does this mean I should change my approach?

That's an even worse sign, dude. No boyfriend and flaking on you while she's completely free and potentially horny. That's a low attraction level.

I would ignore her latest text. She sounds like a diva/attention validation girl, and ignoring her texts is a great way to get her wondering.

The ability for a man to completely not fear walking away is the greatest tool we have in the toolbox. It can save LTR, save FWB, and save weak/failing situations like this.

Also, don't fucking talk to a mutual friend about her. It will get back to her and you'll look like a needy douchebag.

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Bro too much though onto this one chick. I'm telling you, drop the chick to the bottom of the list. Get chicks that actually want your dick

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PostPosted: Wed May 04, 2016 2:47 am 
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Thanks for the advice guys. Will probably see here tomorrow in class. Shall I instant date like I usually do and take her for a coffee or just escalate a bit then tell her I have to leave?


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Bro too much though onto this one chick. I'm telling you, drop the chick to the bottom of the list. Get chicks that actually want your dick


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Can you guys see how this lump is ignoring every single one of my posts simply because he doesn't want to acknowledge the truth?

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Can you guys see how this lump is ignoring every single one of my posts simply because he doesn't want to acknowledge the truth?
Everything rather came to a head today, I'm not sure this proves or questions your point.

We were meant to get a drink in town but it didn't happen so it ended up like this by text:

Me : "Okay. I enjoy spending time with you but it's proving to be impossible to organise anything"

Her: "I know, im allover the place lately, im so sorry its not on purpose :/"

Me: "Well I hope everything is okay . Would you like to talk about it you, or would you prefer to just leave things? "
"Can you talk for 5 mins? My friends getting a tan done (pathetic I know) "

Her: "Came home and just had the loooongest shower ever :p is he still in there?? Why would you get a tan in *****?? Everyones gonna know its fake :p well, too much pressure from both uni and non uni life and its kinda taken its toll on me, thats why i always seem to be in a rush, tired or stressed :p its all gonna be fine and fabulous in a few weeks though :) :)"

Me: "Well I hope you're feeling better! I have no idea, he's weird, I know... :| Well it would be lovey to spend more time with you!"

Her: "Getting there :) ooh well not weirder than me hahah that would be lovely indeed!!"

Wanted an idea of what was going on as it's been distracting me while I things like exams going on. Can't say I actually have any more of an idea than before.

Honestly appreciating all the help guys even if you think I'm not!


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So you ignored solid advice, and thus lost the girl.

Your texts were too needy and she stiff-armed you, bro. Dust yourself off and on to the next.

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It proves it, lol.

How can you not see she's literally dodging you? You legit believe her reasons?

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