Your real life examples sound pretty normal. FWB's/FB's come and go. Girls will be interested on Monday and not interested on Wednesday because other parts of their lives happen and it's not your fault.

The reason they send pictures like that always boils down to one thing. Validation.

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it just interests me so much, like the difference between men and women. Like men will only "focus" on women they want, where as women will entertain attention regardless.

Like its mans worse nightmare to gain attention of someone he's not attracted to.

Not true at all.

ok fair point, but they will entertain more that a man would of people they're not sexually interested in.

I feel like it boils down to the logic vs emotion thing between men and women.

Men will think practically and go, well I'm not interested so any input isn't worth my time. Where as a woman state is based more on emotions.

Again, not true.

Remember, generally speaking, attraction is different for men and women.

For men, it's likened to a light switch. Attraction is either there, or not ('on/off'). Hence MOST guys will bang his ex, even if she's batshit crazy, simply because he's still attracted to her physicality (although tastes do change over time).

For women, attraction is like a volume knob. It's not as static, per se. You can be a "hot" guy in her mind, but if you say the wrong thing, her attraction can drop off quick dramatically. If, say, for example you're sending off needy vibes, that will damper her attraction to you. This is why often times when a guy stops chasing, the woman will backtrack a bit and sniff around to see what's up, even though she had made herself inaccessible to him earlier on.

These are generalities of course, attraction is a pretty dynamic thing, but by and large this is how the sexes are wired.


LOGIC has absolutely nothing to do with attraction. Like when a friend of yours finds fault in the girl he crossed paths with the night before, he's trying to rationalize away his poor approach, or lackthereof. Logic and attraction don't mix for either sex.

Logic vs emotion? Where is YOUR logic in talking to a woman from the internet in a far city and even taking that seriously?

Lol. Anytime I see guys write the logic vs emotion thing, its always they've done some crazy stupid shit, not gotten laid from it and then they say its because women are emotional. No....(no offense) but YOU were being illogical to take an internet chick you never met who doesnt live near you seriously. Unless you're a pilot, why are you even wasting time with these girls not in your vicinity? THAT'S more illogical than anything else.

Your examples are just women who lost interest, some who may have liked you on some level, but not enough to travel to meet up with you. So sharpen your game or meet girls closer to you.

The divide between men and women in cases like this, is not really emotions vs logic. Its "having options" vs "not having options" mentalities. To a guy without options, sure women can seem irrational. But if you had 3 chicks you liked in one city and you were travelling there, why should you pick one over the other? ALot of guys cant understand them because theyre coming from scarcity so its if I flirt with a chick its a big deal, so I must fuck her. Meanwhile the woman is flirting with 5 dudes, and doesnt pick you because you're not at the top of the list. Cant blame her for picking one of her other options. Be the best/better option.

And yes, they send pics for validation. But if they're not meeting up with you, its because you arent giving them a reason to.

If a girl sends you a risque photo, you set up a meet immediately. She's begging you to do something.

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i somewhat disagree with you, i wouldn't send a dick pick to a girl i didnt like, or to receive validation. Girls do that shit, because they need that emotional gratification.

If you had a 13 inch dick, you would more likely. See quietlife, girls generally are more validation seeking than men. But the reason you dont get it is because you don't get "when you got it flaunt it." Are you ripped? If you were, you'd find reasons to send shirtless pics just for the "wow, you're sexy" message back. People like to show off. The people who dont do it in some way are typically the people who dont have anything to show off. If you could take a picture of yourself, and get a girl wet from that alone, wouldn't you send a picture? Everyone likes their ego stroked. Hot girls do it, hot guys do it. It is what it is.

Have to agree w Neo, in that I am pretty "ripped", "jacked" etc.. and while I don't always feel comfortable flaunting it, I do get an inordinate # of women starring at me out in public (I can still be quite timid, and prefer to keep to myself...at times even wearing looser fitting clothes). Ive used it to my advantage in rare instances such as diverting their eyes to my face, accusing them of starring at my boobs, suggesting we go bra shopping together at Victoria's Secret, etc.. The downside to having a particular 'stand-out' trait is the stereotypes that come along with it. So, for example, women are sometimes IMPRESSED by my intellect as if they're merely judging me based on my looks alone I may get typecast as a jock, muscle head, or somebody completely vain.

lol im...... not fat if thats what you're suggesting. Naturally athletic physique