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This community only excist because someone wanted to find a way to improve the known rules...
It's more of the "fix it" mentality that you have here. If a girl doesn't respond, then she doesn't. You can reopen if something new happens and that will more than likely be met with interest. Trying to force a response is not really necessary. That's just my opinion, but if it is working for you...by all means keep doing it.
However, I hate the notion of going out to post pictures to grab one persons attention. That is such a needy mentality to have. Having an "8" or above do it is just an odd idea. If you have an 8-10 woman posting and tagging pictures of you for another woman that doesn't even want to respond to you to see, I'd say that you are really not taking advantage of the opportunity in front of you.
^^This is the way to go about it.
If she goes cold for some time, it's ok to 'ping' her, though keep it short, not obscure (which is difficult for some guys), and interesting (e.g., funny).
Jack is right on the money in that it's the energy to which you do things out of which will determine how others perceive you, and MORE IMPORTANTLY how you view yourself. I wouldn't put any effort into 'showing' a girl how cool a guy I am by uploading photos, or sharing snapchats to show my status, that's weak for sure and even if she doesn't catch on immediately, she will in due time. And if a relationship ensues its under the wrong pretense because now you're a trained fish, or dog expecting a Scooby snack everytime you do 'good'.