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One of the biggest traits she find enjoys about me is how open minded i am. We have known eachother for about a 4 months.
During this time we have had sex probally 10ish times but it's never been amazing. She recently told me that she doesn't think that we have, "sexual Chemisty."
She told me how she loves cuddling with me and when i kiss her and loves spending time with me, but she starting to say that she wants all that but no sex.
I did look online too, but i wanted the opinion of guys who have been in the game for a while and have seen a lot. What do you guys think?
This is also the first girl i have had sex with and im the first guy she has had it with. She had it with 2 other guys too.
I'm very inexperianed in bed, so i was thinking that was the reason but im not sure so i wanted your opinions
Why waste everyone's time when you've asked in many threads for sex tips and admitted your sex sucks? Why not just be honest and say "My gf is unsatisfied by me...should I dump?"
Come on man...you came into this shit being dishonest. Why do you guys do that?! I was actually thinking ..."oh guy seems level headed, must be something with the open relationship stuff...let me check his old posts for some context....Oh nope...its just a bunch of requests for sex help so why is he questioning it here?"
Hey Neo, i actually took all that advice to heart. I started studying after that, and used advice that was given to me. That thread was a long time ago. Since then i have grown individually, and the sex really is better now(After reading/rereading many books). The reason we didn't have it in the past was becuase of the fact that i wasn't able to satisfy her. She made that clear. That was strong enough motivation for me to study my ass off. That is not the case anymore, and i was being honest that she does cum more then once when we are in bed now(I was the first guy to do that to her), and we went from not having it at all, to more often now.
In the end, i'm not on this form for significance. Lieing doesn't help me improve, everything i say is from the heart and honest.
If 2-3 months ago she was saying the sex is boring, you read some stuff and she's "cumming" but the sex is still low, then I would just go with the simple answer, ie the sex is still boring and she's faking. If you had sex 10 times in 4 months, thats close to the rate now if its every week or other week. Keep in mind, the majority of women fake it, so the best gauge is typically how much she wants to have it.
It could be psychological, or even her work...like if she's working long hours and is exhausted and you guys see each other after her longest shift once a week...but I'd guess that since she was complaining abt the sex a couple mths ago, its probably just she's not satisfied.
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