Hey guys. I recently posted a thread on the online sarging forum about this really sexy girl who i hit it off with on instagram then onto texting. Were both latin , so we both can speak spanish which has enabled us to have this really cool vibe together. We were at the point where we would be snapchatting eachother silly shit and be talking sense and having fun, i really enjoyed it. Anyway ive been reading alot on PUA and been a heavy visitor on these forums to try and sharpen my game to land myself a special girl as my game has always been my weakest point. Ive adopted the '' treat them mean keep them keen '' approach as few on here claim that is the way to go, and i figured that because my natural self im a very nice guy i tend to be seen as a pushover i believed that it would fix my problems. Anyway, me and this girl were talking alot and i could feel a slight build of attraction there between us, and believe me i was just building up enough of a connection to ask for us to meet up, i hate communicating though texting. Anyway, 2 nights ago i pushed her away through what i believe was very dumb and very mean on my behalf. We were texting late at night about the topic of my smashed phone in which it is currently being repaired. So i have been given a loanee for the time being, and i was telling her how shit the phone i am using is, because its very slow and very unresponsive. To which she teased me saying '' what a hard life i live''. ill just copy our text messages so you guys can get a better reading of it.


ME- Their so slow.
Her- no there not. I have one, they are sensational.
me-Broke ass bitch
Her-- Fuck off
me- hahaha im playing. I have a free iphone 5 if you want it.
Herr-- Mine is an iphone 5s..
Her - cuz its the same shit
me - you said iphone 5
me- what does the s stand for then
her- fuck do i know.
her- all i know is
her- i can use my finger print and shit
me - fiesty



she then hasnt spoken to me since that. I have tried messaging her at least 4-5 times now and she hasnt replied. How can i revive it? Im thinking of just letting it past a few days then hit her up again. But what should i say? We both have the same music taste.. So im thinking of telling her about a song i just discovered which i think she would like. What are your guys opinion?What should i do. And btw, how is my game? How should i approach women

Is this snippet supposed to mean anything or what? I don't get it. Which part is "very dumb and very mean of your behalf"?

Furthermore, why are you not asking her out?

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well to be fair we have only spoken for 3 days.. I thought it would be too soon.
And when i called her broke ass bitch, to me i think thats what killed it. Happy to hear your opinion R.C

The way you wrote your initial post made it seem as if you've been talking for longer than that.

3 days in, a comment like that may be a bit over the line. But it depends on how easy going she is. Don't know, she didn't seem extremely offended.

Anyway, you make it sound like there has been a lot of contact between the two of you during those 3 days. There's no point sharing your life stories over text if you're never gonna meet in person.

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Lol. I thought they had known and were hanging out for a while too. Yeah she didn't seem really offended. Why are you offering a free cell phone to a chick! The way it was worded sounded serious.

Rcs guide can help with texting.. I'd just say one thing.. Send one text at a time. These 5 texts in a row unanswered thing will fuck you up worse than whatever happened

Perhaps there was some attraction in the beginning but you never pulled the trigger and asked for a date. The 4-5 messages in a row probably ended it, however, if you still have her on Snapchat, best bet would be to include something in your story so that she indirectly sees it and comments. Though to be honest, it's probably dead. Move on.

Op there is a line between talking dirty and talking unrespectful. According to your retarded text messages i can say there is no respect between you two. What the hell did you wait to call her like that. You lose your chances with this chick. If you base the R.C.'s guide, the result is not a surprise for me. You have long way to go bro.

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R.C.'s guide practically changed my life. I would pay for that material.

This is what happens when you engage in fake alpha male bullshit.

Overcompensating. She's turned off from you as a result, likely saw right through your game, or just chalked you up as another douche.

The "broke ass bitch" comment won't win a lot of fans of the opposite sex.

Just the way she's texting she doesn't give 2 shits, so it was likely easy for her to next you and continue on with the other guys who don't come off as socially awkward and/or rude (at least as much as you had).

I see same kind of sense of humor with op and R.C. it is obvious our op did good his lesson. With the other words, rude and disrespectful approach should not be a guide, at least for some one who does not wanna make mistakes.

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You're done bro.

When chatting with a girl on Instagram or any social media site that you don't know the connecting thread is very thin. There are so many other people contacting on these sites that any slip up can take things away. Its the microwave generation its the way it is. You gotta leave the girl alone now bro. 4-5 times is already too much. Did you think she didn't see the first two messages? You figured that if you messaged her 5 times instead of two times that she would respond? Im really curious to hear your logic on that.

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lol! You can get away with "broke ass bitch" when a girl has had you in her mouth. Until then, this is way too much.





No shit?


lol. You send one message, ONE and you wait to hear back. You offended her, and now you look like you're needy from quadruple-texting. You can be one or the other, but never both. Over.


you can't.

Nothing. If you text her again you'll look crazy.

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