I have other options... I'm just trying to not fuck things up more with this one chick

Pua trolls lol I was looking for constructive criticism

Having other options and claiming you don't want to fuck things up more with this girl are 2 disconnected and probably antagonistic ideas, because if you have other real options, you won't really care about fucking up with one of them. Which ironically will decrease the chances of fucking up with this particular girl.

Anyway, your texts are the green ones? I got confused, because all of them seem kinda dull. As in, lacking teasing/flirting, and the grey ones too. If I were you, for the sake of practicing, I'd start teasing her more. She's a flighting assistant, so there's plenty of material to tease about.

Quit trying to demonstrate that you are something that you are not. A guy that has women chasing him doesn't throw them in the face of the one he's trying not to fuck things up with. You want to go out with her just tell her to let you know the next time she's in town and that she needs to put a few hours to the side for you. All of the cocky stuff doesn't help because you are being to blunt with it.

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I have teased her. The conversation has just gotten to a dull point... We've also spoken over the phone and she occasionally initiates conversation or ask if I'm around... What has killed things has been my excess texting and maybe too much time has Past bye...

I've teased her about her Hispanic heritage and about being a flight attendant... We have simmillar interests and views torward life that's why I'm trying not to fuck this one up...

I'm not sure what various ppl mean when they say flirting is supposed to elicit emotion...

Well, we can only judge what we see. And I see a dull conversation full of dull replies from both parties. You're over texting the shit out of her, which is a sign of neediness and seeking her approval (which is bad). Moreover, your texts are boring. That's why you seem to go nowhere.

Anyway, similar views in life and whatever is a very beautiful thing to look for when you're fucking. But really, have you two met yet? Have you kissed her?
I doubt. So why are you creating so much anticipation, when your only relationship with her is a texting one? It's just not natural, because you don't know her. She may be a fucking weirdo, a neurotic, she can shop off her bf's dicks, you don't know her.

There are tons of other girls out there who you can see for real, who you can fuck, who may even share similar opinions about important matters of life, but you're wasting a shit load of time and effort with a girl you barely see (if you already met).

If you really have other options, then go fuck them, because you're too attached already and you didn't even kiss each other.

And by flirting I mean teasing. It's kind of the same.

I've teased her as well as used other types of flirting(can't think what other types I used off the top of my head) and aware too many texts conveys neediness and also gives the other person power in the dynamics of the conversation.... Yes you are right I've given too much importance to this one girl

In the past I said to her "hey I don't know if we can hang, aren't Brazilian women obsessed with dancing, jealous lovers and have hot tempers...?" She knows I'm of Spanish/French background so I'm kind playing dumb

I figured I would try to leave the conversation by conveying (value) and then saying something like hey just message me when you're around and available to hang out...so I don't go on further with endless texting

I also thought about not responding to her for a bit

In regards, to that specific message about 5girls, I told her I was joking afterwards... Since then, whenever we chat she inquires if I'm dating anyone. My thought is I've conveyed neediness with my messages, so she may be screening me with the questions...

I was trying to leave the conversation by conveying (value) and then saying something like hey just message me when you're around and available to hang out...so I don't go on further with endless texting

I also thought about not responding to her for a bit

(Typing with my broken phone; excuse the errors)

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