This is not my first rodeo. I am in my forties and I enjoyed women in my twenties and thirties. Thanks to online dating I have dated, had sex with tons of women. Online dating used to be much easier in my twenties and thirties. I am now trying this GAME thing where a man walks up to a woman and seduces her. I just had my first success and I wanted to share with the world. Some of you may find it entertaining.

Okay, there are things I do to make myself presentable. I go to the gym 2-3 times a week. Nothing hardcore. I have a fit / athletic body. I am definitely not heavy or overly muscular. I leave a bit of facial hair all the time. I “try” to wear a red shirt mostly because red means passion and it has helped me. I don’t really wear jewelry but sometimes I wear a necklace and it helps to start or help a conversation. I always chew a gum before I start any game. Nobody wants to smell your bad breath. That’s pretty much it. Of course I take daily showers and use deodorant.

I don’t have a wing. I always go alone.

So, I went to a bar on a weekday. It was really low volume. I had to attack. I saw two beautiful (an 8 and a 9) girls sitting and talking to each other. I passed them once and asked myself. “You fucking idiot!!! Why didn’t you say something???” I turned around and without asking permission, I sat on the chair and said “Hi, How are you guys doing?” with a smirk. I asked their names, I told them my name. I asked them where they are from, we talked about that for a while. I complimented them both because I didn’t make up my mind on which one I wanted and the conversation was going well. I immediately asked them if they were single because I didn’t want to waste my time.

Then other dudes noticed. They started approaching because they saw me and they wanted a piece of action. There were two girls there after all. They asked if it is okay to sit with us or is it okay to talk to them or if they could buy them a drink. Girls thought they were like mosquitoes…. and they swatted all of them.

They talked most of the time. Every time I said something it was about my life. I didn’t make up stories, I didn’t make myself a hero. I just talked about stuff I like and stuff I like to try, my successes, failures, desires and dreams. Nothing philosophical, fancy or deep. If I thought about something funny I said it. It felt like I was hanging out with my friends after 4-5 minutes.

We hung out a little more and it was time to go. I made up my mind about which girl I wanted and it was kind of late and I did touch her arm here and there during the interaction. I told her, I’d love to meet her again and asked her number. She gave it to me and I went home.

I texted her the next day. We started talking. She did tell me she wasn’t sure if I was into her or her friend. I told her I liked both of them but I liked her more. I wanted to meet her so we met at a coffee shop. We talked and it was beautiful. She told me she wants to be friends with me because she wasn’t looking for anything romantic. I told her I can’t predict the future but I didn’t make all these efforts to be her friend. I told her I want her. I told her she is extremely attractive and I want her like a man wants a woman. It was our second time to see each other. This is why she ridiculed me and I didn’t back down. I said the same thing. She was very strong about not wanting anything romantic and I was just as strong about wanting her.

I invited her to my place. She said nothing will happen and I told her I will respect her wishes but I let her know I want her. We talked, we kissed but nothing else happened. Next day she was extremely strong about not wanting anything romantic. I told her if she doesn’t want anything romantic, then I am walking away because I can’t be her friend while I have strong desires for her. She said “Good Luck” and I didn’t respond. No more than a couple hours I got a text saying that “I’ll do it” That was it. Then I invited her to my place and it happened. It was about a week worth of work and and I closed on the fourth date. Now she wants it all the time and that’s great and all but I have never thought it was going to be this easy. The toughest thing was to walk up to them and claim my space in a strong but playful way.

I know I have A LOT to learn but everything starts with the first step, right? So here is what I have learned from this experience.

Never ask permission
It REALLY doesn’t matter how you open. Basic “Hi, How are you?” is enough. Open playfully. You don’t need a huge smile. A smirk will suffice. Definitely don’t appear too serious.
You need to be loud enough, otherwise they can’t hear you especially at a bar.
Just talk to them like you are talking to your friends. I know they are hot but they are humans too.
If she tells you she wants to be a friend, even until she knows you better, say no. You guys don’t have to have sex right away but let her know YOU WANT HER and YOU HAVE BEEN WANTING HER since you saw her the first time.
Wish me luck. I love the game and I have tasted it. Now I want more.

This is something that I keep trying to get across to people. If you want one girl in a group, you flirt with all of them. Just the slight competition that women have with each other will build attraction for a guy that understands this.

Happy it worked out for you, OP/

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I really know nothing other than watching some videos on youtube and reading forums. It seems like everyone has a different style and it is amazing how much I learn from everyone. I am DEFINITELY open to suggestions. Everyone, please let me know if I need any calibration.

I just can't wait to do this again. It is like a drug

You did it, so take it with a grain of salt when someone says you should do something differently.

That being said, she's telling you how she wasn't sure which girl you wanted and after she knew, she said that she only wanted to be friends was all bullshit from the beginning. It is rare that a disinterested woman will agree to meet up for any reason. She's definitely not going to mull around for 4 "dates" and not wanting anything romantic but then all of a sudden decide she wants to fuck.

She was attracted from the start. I'd bet money that you could have taken her home that same night and accomplished the same thing with less talking about it and getting around her token resistance. I'm not criticizing in any way. I'm just saying that there didn't have to be so much negotiation in it.

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I definitely see your point but I am still new. I guess I need to learn to accelerate in the middle or somewhere. I will definitely work this in. Thank you for the suggestion.

And oh my god.. this is dope!!!!

Great story, and inspirational. I've been watching PUA videos and reading books and they make it all seem so complicated. Long openers, complex mind games, etc. Reading your story gives me hope that it really could be just that simple; at least some of the times.