We have quarrel and fixed it. And I start a new one, She forbid me to get drunk so what I did is I go to party with cousins. I told her about this. and one day, she did not txt nor call, and she return all my things she kept. What I did is I say sorry to her and forgive me to the things I've done, I did this for almost three days. after this, she become cold and unresponsive of my txt and call. she ignores my invitation to go outside. she keeps telling me that she is busy. we rarely contacting now. before she respect my part as her BF but now she totally ignores me. Can I fix this?, Can I regain my control?, What are the right things to do?

No. You cannot do anything.
But congratulations on your new found freedom. Go get drunk and fuck her cousin.
She was a bossy cunt anyway, no loss.

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You're suffering from a lack of abundance. If you had 10 girls trying to suck your balls right now I guarantee that you wouldn't put up with her behaviour. Go and find 10 girls that want to suck your balls and stop putting up with bullshit from Girls who are trying to control you.

Yes, you shouldn't be a dick and you need to give and take in a relationship, BUT if she's imposing her values and needs onto you and not giving you any leeway then WALK.