Hi all PUA's over here, how's everything?

I have a situation which need advice from you guys.

I'm interested in this girl and we could see see each other almost everyday before this. We know each other for a couple of months, while we are not super close we do feel comfortable to have some conversations. I used to tell some stories and jokes to her, chat her up on random things and she seems quite responsive and we did have fun and relax talks.

For some reasons we cannot see each other frequently now and what we can do is to keep in touch through facebook messenger. Our conversation in the messenger is quite fun and flirty and she does seem enjoy it too. While I like her and being flirty with her I am not sure how to take things further from there - the objective is to get her to be my girlfriend (not just for one night stand sort of things), but I don't want to show desperation or make her feel pressured or uncomfortable at all. Our current situation is quite fun, relax and flirty, which I think is a good thing and I don't wanna ruin it.

Oh ya I did asked her for lunch (twice) before in person in a straight forward way (not through online or text, but face to face asking her). Both of the times she didn't reject me verbally but she asked me why and then she tried to avoid the topic... ya I know that is a reject, but I am not sure if she is just trying not to be rude to straight up reject me or just feeling shy and awkward. She did tell me before that she is a bit uncomfortable with straight forward attitude from guys (like when giving praise or things like that).

So my question is simple: How do I take things from here? I want her to be my girlfriend but at the same time I don't want to make her feel pressured or uncomfortable with anything I do. Right now we could only text or chat in messenger most of the time.

Thanks in advance guys.

You have no choice but to ask her to meet up with you again. If she asks why again, just tell her you like spending time with her. If she refuses again, you're wasting time on her. A girl that likes you is going to meet up with you.

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I'll break it down for you with a method that has never failed me.

Don't say to her directly, "hey lets get dinner" or something like that. Instead tell her you had dinner reservations before a movie with your friends but none of them could make it before the movie, and ask her if she would like to join you instead. There you have the invitation, time restraint being before the movie (made up or not), and you're on a date even if she doesn't realize.

Afterwards, by the time of the movie, if it went well tell her you two should make actual plans to do this again. If it went really well and there's the option to close right then, tell her you'll blow off the movie because you're enjoying the dinner/date more than you would the movie.

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