| I start by sitting close to her. If you are on the other side of the couch, get up to go get a drink, take a leak, etc. Then come sit right next to her. Then, when the movie is a slow point, initiate kino, and start up the kino ladder. I find that by keeping my leg against hers "unintentionally," she will be much more comfortable with kino. Goof around. Poke her, tickle her, etc. Then slow it down, and maintain the actual touch.
A good trick is Mystery's Knee Compliance trick. When she's getting used to kino, take her hand and place it on your knee. Not thigh or crotch or anything, just your knee. Wait. If she's comfortable, she'll keep it there, in which case you escalate again. If she moves it away, give her a freeze-out, and shift your body away from her. When she starts working for you affection, turn your body back towards her, and resume kino. After a while, repeat. _________________ -The good can never be measured, but the great can never be controlled-
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