| Hi everyone, im new at this forum also at game. My english also is not my main language so if theres some gramatical mistakes i wish you could understand it.
So i would like to inmerse totaly into pickup. I need a lot to practice. Im now at the level that i could confortly aproach at a bar but only if im not alone, and also i need to have a good time, to be in state. I should say im quite good looking; mens say that with my looks i defenitely should have a lot of women and girls are staring at me from time to time when im not looking. The problem is i dont do enough aproaches to improve. The main obstacle is my fear of rejection. Even though i feel like girls become instantly confortable around me i dont push further because the fear of rejection. So in my head there is a voice that tells me "quit from the set before they reject you". Afcourse im aware that i need to do tons of aproaches and escalating the further the better.
** Now comes the part why of me asking an opinion.
I lived in Madrid, a big beautiful city with big oportunitys of aproaching. Now, about a year ago ive moved to a little town in south of Germany. Ive moved basicaly because of the new experiences that comes with moving aboard; learning a new language, discovering myself better, learning about their culture etc.
This move had made a good improvement to my life.. But not to my social life, including girls. In the town im living there are 2 night bars and 1 club. Another club is at 8 km in another village. I could say they all know eachother and are not the most warmly people. I almost dont have friends here, and am really struggling with the language. My lack of social confidence, low level language and little options to practice and FAIL in this town are not helping at all in my objective of being able to atract beutiful ladys.
Now im thinking it would be better to move to the nearest big city. There i could meet more people, there are Meetups, there are much more girls and ofcourse i could meet people from spain or all over latinoamerica.
***The problem is that my actual Boss had helped me a lot. He helped me with my papers here ( i had some strugles) he helped me with my apartment( here is very hard to get one, and if you are from abroad its almost imposible) he is very kind with me. Now when im thinking of moving i feel like i fail him and am not thankful to all he had done for me. It could sound like a Bool**** but so is my moral. Maybe its wrong. I would like to hear what do you thing about it. Would you just do whatever you thing is better for you at this time? Or would you think how to make everyone happy? ( in my case i think i could drive every weekend to the city, 50 km away, while im living and working here, but this way i couldnt make any daygame during the weekend)
Thank you for reading! Again
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