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I am just now getting out of my breakup (3 years ago) so yea you can imagine. I have lost all my game. This chick I have been texting to is maybe a 4 or max 5. She is not that attractive but she is giving me all kinds of hints and stuff. And just the kind of person to help me move on.

We have spoken and I have hinted about sex and fwb stuff and she seemed cool with it. So yesterday I asked her if she wanted to go somewhere spontaneously and she was very reluctant. It was very last moment so she was like maybe next weekend and stuff.

How do I seal the deal?

How is a woman you barely find attractive "just what you need right now"?

Are those seriously your standards?

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Why is a weekend get away necessary at all? Let alone for a girl thats a 4.. who I would suspect is a 3 because of the way we over estimate when its a girl we're with.

I think putting in the actual work (approaching women), what this forum is actually about is a more important step right now in your life than trying to rush and have sex with a 4 just to get your rocks off. You won't feel any better. You won't feel better until you lay a emotional foundation with quality woman. You're wasting your time and creating memories you won't want to reflect on once you get your head out of the sand.

Do the newbie challenge. Rebuild your game. Don't go lowering your standards. Your self worth will go right with it.

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What both R.C and Eddie said. AND....
Why would you want to take a girl on a weekend getaway if you haven't had sex with her yet? Take yourself on a getaway and find a girl that will give you amazing, guilt free, "I will never see him again" sex.

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Yea man go to a vacation spot or to a place where there are lots of young girls + alcohol. if you're in good shape it should be easy. Last time I was out at the beach it was pua paradise...

I have spent a good amount of money on women, and what I realized is more important is using my resources to take myself out of my comfort zone bc being challenged is way more valuable. It's so easy to get a hot college girl to sleep with me for money. But after having like 30~ partners in the last 6 months I would rather spend my money going out, doing fun things, meeting new people, exploring places, and forming genuine connections. Taking the easy way out (me using my money or you banging this 4/5) is not a good choice.

Most of the hottest women have this perspective.

Think about what you wrote, OP. You're scheming how to take a 4 on a weekend getaway.

Think about that.

Great advice in this thread. Take *yourself* on a getaway and meet women who are not 4's.

We've all been there before, just getting out of another relationship/FWB situation, don't want to put in the effort so we go home with a 4. The next day she wants you to meet her parents and FB selfies you five times, yet all you can think of is how she looked a bit like upside-down livestock on your bed.

No.

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stupid idea... here something like this...
think for yourself pal you seem to come up with "interesting ideas" but do not know how to put them into "Action"

"I want you to come with me this weekend, lets spend some time together at a [beach name or wherever]
Will you come with me?"

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