I am a freshman in college and she is a senior in Highschool. I see her on the weekends. My job doesn't require a lot of work, so i have a lot of free time. She has a lot more school and works long hours.

This girl is awesome, we are both very happy with the relationship! Sex, for me is a challenge right now though. I have just begun to realize this, and understand i may have to breakup with her because this is a big need of mine not getting met. Before i jump to the conclusion. I first need advice, and i have looked online and researched, although i want advice from you guys.

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The sex is nice, and she always orgasms a few times during it. So i'm guessing that isn't the challenge.

My sex drive is high though, and her's seems to be lower. I am in the mood a lot and she only is a little. I'm assuming it's mainly since she's always tired? But that's why i'm coming to you guys. It can't be just because of that right?

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TLDR / Overal : Is there anything i can do to increase her sex drive, or is that something that is constant.
Should i talk to her about this?
Do you guys have any other advice on this whole area? I would very much apperiacte some thorough help here because this is a new thing to me, and i am sure this kind of thing will come up again later during my life.

If you fucj her verytime for short period it is normal. Yry to br better at sex at least once for 30 min. It would not be a problem.

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A little confused on that i must say

Your goal should be longer sex, less times.

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How many times do you see her during a week and how many times you have sex?

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"Being tired" is a bullshit excuse unless she's a construction worker or whatever else that requires intense physical labor.
Anyway, a lot of guys base their performance on whether or not she cums during sex, and while that's a big part of it, it's not all of it.

However there's missing info. How often do you see each other and how often of those times do you want sex? How long have you been together? Do you always have sex the same way? etc

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Open relationship for about 7 months, started closed the relationship on the 7th month and have been exclusive for a month. I see her at night normally on the weekends once or twice, after she's done with work, and every other week we spend a full day together on the weekends when she has work off. When we do hang out at night, we end up cuddling, and my hand ends up down her pants, almost all of the times we cuddle at night on the weekend.

We actually have sex either once a week, or every other week

So this has been going on for 7 months?

Why was it open?

This.

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Spoiler alert!!! She isn't coming a few ones every time haha. If girl is orgasming everytime you have sex it's very doubtful she would be classified as someone who has a low sex drive. However lets assume she is cuming everytime(she's not). Why would she not want to sleep with you more often? Maybe because she feels like you're using her just for sex(sounds like it). Also this open to closed relationship is odd. I'm going to assume there is more to that story and it is 100% pertinent to your current question. Don't omit shit that matters. Most open relationship go from closed to open so explain how that happened haha.

Could be psychologic. I've been with a chick, who felt guilty herself after everytime we fuck. It was pain in the ass to convince her for fuck.

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I guess it could be psychological but the simplest answer is usually the correct answer. No need to try to dig deep into her past and shit we can figure it out if he just describes his current situation better. It's most likely some relationship dynamic that op is missing so he keeps trying to bang cuz that's what guys think will solve a problem. We had a fight? Well we just ducked now we're cool. Girls aren't like that. I doubt it is some sort of crazy religious guilt. If it was it would
Most likely be obvious to OP. I think there's more to the story that op is leaving out that will point us to the correct answer

Interesting, okay, i'll give some more background because i would still love some insight on this question.

Ever since we met, we had a strong connection. Yet we both didn't want a relationship at the time. My reason was because i was in college, and i wanted to fuck around this freshman year. Her reason was more aimed towards her being scared of relationships being that her parents divorced, and the overall divorce rate makes her think that monogamy isn't the right path.

We are both very into personal growth. We both have boundaries, and respect each others, and we are very open with communication.

--- So to recap, we made the relationship exclusive month 6, on month 5, i brought up the idea of dating and she wasn't into the idea, not because of me, but because of her mentality on monogamy. A week later, she sent me some text message that said something along the lines of, "i was rethinking about what you said, and if the offer is still up i would love to be your girlfriend." Before i agreed i asked what changed? Then she said something along the lines of how, "when she thinks about commitment to me, it doesn't make her want to run the other way for the first time.

Then that's how that whole thing came about

So was there ever a time when you had sex 3-4 times a week or was it always once about every week or so?

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Some chicks think if they fuck more and as a result they would attach to the person. I think because of the commitment fear, she is avoding to have sex as much as you like, provided one sided satisfaction.

According to your desc. She is not relationship material, so better you should take care yourself against emotional commitment.

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