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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2016 2:21 pm 
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If a girl tells you that she has intimacy issues and enjoys her space because she doesn't like to be bothered. How would you react? handle it?


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2016 2:30 pm 
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Stop smothering her. It's a hint.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2016 2:43 pm 
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Stop smothering her. It's a hint.
Right.

Girls tell you things they want you to know for YOU. Guys just talk shit. And so often women think the things we're telling them are for them when we're just talking to talk and it has nothing to do with them. Thats how we communicate as guys, we just talk shit. Women don't exactly communicate in that way. They tell you what they want you to know.

So what she said isn't what she actually is.. She just wants YOU to stop doing whatever it is that you're doing thats making her say that. She meet another guy and tell him that she likes it when a guy is all over her, because she's into him in that way.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2016 7:48 pm 
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Stop smothering her. It's a hint.
Right.

Girls tell you things they want you to know for YOU. Guys just talk shit. And so often women think the things we're telling them are for them when we're just talking to talk and it has nothing to do with them. Thats how we communicate as guys, we just talk shit. Women don't exactly communicate in that way. They tell you what they want you to know.

So what she said isn't what she actually is.. She just wants YOU to stop doing whatever it is that you're doing thats making her say that. She meet another guy and tell him that she likes it when a guy is all over her, because she's into him in that way.
So you're saying you would wait for her to reach out?


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2016 7:49 pm 
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Are you having sex with her? Context is important.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2016 8:12 pm 
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Are you having sex? Context is important.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2016 11:08 pm 
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Cool. Give her space, and when you see her, fuck her extremely hard (I mean it, as fast and as hard as you can from behind) and learn how to make her orgasm with your mouth. Suddenly her "intimacy" issues will go away. Say hi when she walks in the door and toss her against a wall and get to work.

Do not ask her what she wants to do in bed. Take the lead. Toss her onto the bed, grab her by the throat. Have your way with her. Order her to take her clothes off while you stand a few feet away, etc. Don't ask her to blow you, grab her hair and lead her.

I know this type of girl. Right now she is waffling on things because she's looking for an intense leader and passion. Do this and she's yours.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 4:50 pm 
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Normally chicks gave hint before telling you literally to " bug off " . I'd advice to question what you could have done that might led her to say that.

Good luck for the futures one :)

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:10 pm 
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There's very good advice here, but I also think that she probably went through a lot of distress lately, if you can cure her, she could be yours.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:17 pm 
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There's very good advice here, but I also think that she probably went through a lot of distress lately, if you can cure her, she could be yours.
I usually don't get into the white knight analogies, but this is the very thing that one would do. Any guy that would try to fix a girl in order to have her is making a bad investment.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:23 pm 
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It makes sense, I'm not implying she is broken though, more like she maybe in a bad situation, so if one cheers her up things may go back to normal.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:34 pm 
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It's still a bad mentality. Taking responsibility for a woman's emotions or being the one to fix her situation is unhealthy for a man to be doing. It reinforces a fix it mentality that plagues this forum.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:45 pm 
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It's still a bad mentality. Taking responsibility for a woman's emotions or being the one to fix her situation is unhealthy for a man to be doing. It reinforces a fix it mentality that plagues this forum.
I didn't know that, but thank you for the insight!

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 6:41 pm 
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What is the context behind your question?

Arent you a girl? Are you asking because you told a guy this and want to know how he will handle it? Or is this a lesbian thing?


CONTEXT. What is the purpose of your question


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 8:08 pm 
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It's still a bad mentality. Taking responsibility for a woman's emotions or being the one to fix her situation is unhealthy for a man to be doing. It reinforces a fix it mentality that plagues this forum.
Jack's exactly right. And this doesn't just apply to women, it applies to ANYONE.

Have to say its an encouraging sign seeing posters like Jack and Neo infuse some common sense into this board instead of the same fear-based crap peddled by most self-proclaimed PUAs and 'senior' board members.


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