Met this HB 9 on a Sunday afternoon at the German beer garden. Great kino, hung out all day, she hung out with my friends, i hung out with hers. She ended up coming to dinner with us then to play BINGO at the beer garden again from 12am to 4am on a Sunday night. she was with a friend who was visiting from out of town so i was unable to close that night.

On Monday, i text her:

Me: Great time last night. Hows your Monday?

Her; hey. so much fun last night! And feeling it today hah. How bout you?

Me: Struggle is real. well worth it

Her: Literally so much fun haha

Me: Who knew bingo oculd be so fun

Her: literally sooo much fun. i want to go again haha

Me; same here. can you do early dinner at ssam bar tomorrow?

her: What time you thinking?

me: Basically right when it opens so 6 or 630

her: yeah tomorrow should work!

me: great lets aim for 630. if its full we'll go to one of the other 8 million good restaurants in the area:)

Her: perfect!!

Next day

Her: hey i know you wanted to meet earlier today but its not looking very doable on my end . Hoping to get on your books for another night

Me: No worries, SBLAD and I will be reminiscing the good old days(inside joke), I'll get you caught up next time

Her: LOL SBLAD!

An hour later

Her: So? Lol

Me: Lets do Friday night dinner then see what the city has in store for us

Then, radio silence. Don't think I have done anything wrong. She even followed up with the "So? lol" If she didn't want to see me then she wouldn't have said anything after "LOL SBLAD!" Thoughts and advice welcome...

No one knows??

Probably she did not receive the message, probably (most likely) a dinner date requires a lot of investment (plus, it's a bad date, mainly when there was no kissing/fucking before) and she didn't want to make that, either because she does not feel enough comfort, or she's not (that) attracted to you.

Strange bc we already had dinner on Sunday in a group situation so she knows I'm chill.

What's the move now?

Ping text, is next. “Just saw a pigeon strutting, yet it walks like you… weird”

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It's different. It doesn't matter if you were chill, gay, jewish, whatever. A dinner with several people doesn't require that much of a personal investment, but a dinner date, mainly when you two haven't shared any kind of intimacy, requires a lot of personal investment.
Just flirt with her and build some comfort, so that you two can meet in a more casual date. And don't beat around the bush, text her with the goal of having a date soon.

Follow Heywood advice. He's one of the pros here.

Not quite sure about this. Dinner dates are what most newbies do because they don't believe that a date will come straight over to where they live.

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I was flirting w her in my initial texts, getting her laughing and creating rapport. I even got her to say yes to go on a date the next day but then she flaked. I must be doing something wrong between getting her to accept the date and her flaking the next day bc this is a common problem of mine.

Not always is there "something wrong" that you can do to change things... but I will say you need other things going on in your life, so this one thing doesn't absorb you so much and to be patient.

Give her some time and space, if she flakes a few times, don't keep asking her out. Just stay in light contact and keep talking. You're not in a relationship, so game other girls. There is so much more to life than worrying about what one other person is doing. Like if a woman isn't respecting your time don't give her much of yours. It's really that simple.

I have a date this sat with a woman it took me something like 6 months to convince to see me, mind you I was never overbearing or constantly asking out. I just sent a text msg every couple weeks or so. Now we text every day a least a few times how bad we want each other. She is constantly sending me kissie faces and she's asked several times what I want to do to her sexually. I only got here by being patient and not focusing so much on getting her out...

On the first date, I let her know I wanted to have sex with her when she got in my car. She then said if that's all I wanted to forget it. I said no, I want to know you just as much. We went to eat, and spent time talking about commonalities. I took her back to her place. She let me slobber on top of her massive soft chest implants, tug at her shirt, graze her nipples, kiss her all over the face and neck and grab and pull her hair. Patience my friend...

Great advice! Thanks and good luck. Let me know how the date goes.

Assuming there's not another dude, there are 2 reasons for flaking without her proposing another day: lack of attraction or lack of comfort.
You have to figure which one was the case.
And remember: no dinner dates until kissing/fucking. If you feel she has the hots for you, propose a casual date at night.

Went out on my first date w her on Wednesday. Took her to a comedy club where famous comedians regularly drop by unannounced. Amy Schumer, who happened to be her fav comedian dropped in and she absolutely lost it. She loved the show and was actually crying from how funny it was.

After that we went for a drink and got to know each other on a more personal level. She found out that I am an accomplished entrepreneur and loved how modest I was about it, how I did not brag or come off as douchey. Then later we just were hitting it off I got to know more about her family and what she does for a living etc.

During the date she said she was having a great time and even did the Facebook add. She told me she wanted to see me this weekend. I told her my weekend was pretty full so I wouldn't be able to and so she insisted saying "I think your plans just freed up" and I was like we'll see jokingly.

She told me she had an 8am flight to LA the next day for just 1 day to make a presentation for work. So we left the bar around 1130. As we were leaving she grabbed my hand and we held it as I walked her home making out in between cross walks. Dropped her off and told her to have a good trip and hit me up when she got back.
She jokingly said you text me! Like a gentleman. ( she's from Ohio)

So the next day i texted her

Me: good luck on your prez you're going to kill it!

Her: ahhhh thank you!

Four hours later

Me: going to a indie folk concert w some friends on Sat. Join me

Three hours later

Her: oh fun!!

Me: let's grab a bite beforehand. How's 730?

No response. What the fuck happened?

She just responded 24 hours later saying

"I never saw this. That should work"


Which is a relief. Is this a trap or should I say "cool I'll see you tomorrow"

If she didn't reply (but she did), the unfortunate answer is: She is a woman, aka scatterbrained and fickle.

She held your hand. It was her tip for you to kiss her. Which you didn't notice. The window is closing fast.