Hi guys, i would appreciate some help and ideas... Hope to get some here.

So it's been 2-3 weeks since i've been chatting with this girl. She is nice and not boring. And she does not end conversation with 1 line/word replies like "ok" or "lol"...

She is out studying and will be back maybe soon. So we have known each other only via chat messages.

When we started talking, i learned a lot about her but she would never return me the questions that i would ask her. Example if i'd ask her what she thinks of something, she would just reply and not ask about my opinion about it. Though one time at the beginning she did ignore completely 1 message and diverted to music and asked me what i think about kpop.

Recently this week we were talking about her likes and when she mentioned things she liked, she then ask me about mine. That was the first time she returned my question.

I use some banter techniques while chatting with her but i'm not sure she is getting it. Sometimes she does but most of the time she seems to ignore. Example i just said: Out of all the [first name] [last name]'s I know, I think you're my least favorite. (because she did something bad ) and she didn't respond to that.

One time i said this banter: I wanna hear the truth no matter how flattering it is because we were talking about me and stuff and she said i was very confident. There was another time in the beginning i said something too and she said i was confident. She recently told me that over confidence is not good. well i don't know how confident she thinks i am lol.

And point to be noted:
- She said that i am very talkative because my messages are a little long. And when i asked her if i was so annoying and she said that she find it entertaining not annoying.
- She rarely use smileys. like 1 time in 50 message maybe..

Since i do most of the talking, it would seem that i am the one chasing, but i want to turn this over. I don't know how.

The current situation is, she just mentioned about her being bad at singing and dancing and i returned her "What things are you good at?"

Her response was: "im not too sure what things im good at. give em a list and i'll tell you how good on 5 i am good at them."

Is that some kind of test or trick or trap? lol
How do you think i should handle this?

I always mess up with everyone and now i really want to "not mess up".

I know that this post is a bit long, but you guys are my only hope.

Thanks

Most assuredly a trap. That's what they do. Get you to message them for a couple weeks while they dig the hole. While you masturbate to an assumed image of her over the interweb.

Then she'll set up a meet, you'll fall in the hole, where she will starve you til your skin is real loose, then make a boy suit out of you.

Scary shit Bro.

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i was hoping to get some help here and you are joking around sad

1. Stop chasing.
2. Get off the computer, get her number.
3. Meet her IRL.

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Quick question OP...how old are you?

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as i said, she is currently not in country and will be back soon :/

Don't worry about your 'stage'

And, "not messing this up" would be giving her a list of these 5 things (or something similar);

"Lying, cheating, sex, coloring inside the lines, or geography"

But yeas, stop texting so much. This is really immature, and a sign you desperately need attention. The main point of texting should be to arrange dates, not getting to know someone. That's only allowed if the female is reciprocating.

A 23 y/o woman and I didn't text for 3 days, she texted me last night finally and asked if I'm home alone with the devil emoji...

why this question?
im 24

So how do you suggest i should tacle the last part?

WHere i ask her what things she is good at and she says she doesnt know and i should suggest and she would give rating how good she is or not..

i just reply the messages but find myseld writing a lot. i talk a lot personally lol so... ideas?

The way you write it seems like you are younger and not experienced in expressing yourself sexually to women. That's why I asked.

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well, im not experienced enough to express anything with girls in general... friends are fine but as soon as it comes to relationship and stuff, i always mess up.

Why are you talking so much useless shit over text?
You're asking her what she likes? Over text? Dude, that's the type of conversation you have in real life. And it's not something you ask. It's something you figure out or something she tells you herself.

Read my texting guide. You can learn a lot from it.

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I don't know... im fucking bad at this

I read your post... Nice 1, got loads of things to learn there.. I should read it again..
thanks for that