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Don't jump into relationships so fast.
This is the best answer you're going to get. Take your time in getting to know someone before making any commitments.
There are a number of shortcuts that can give you a rough idea of whether or not you have compatible values, though:
- At some point I almost always ask girls what superpower they would want. It's easy to interpret their answers to predict what their values might be, e.g. flying = freedom
- The answer she tells you for the Horse in the classic "Cube" cold reading game can give you an approximate idea of what her expectations are. For example, if she says her horse is a unicorn, fucking run the other way because unicorns aren't real and she expects impossible perfection.
- Superficiality? Well, this one's going to vary from culture to culture, but ask them about (or look at) their handbag/purse. Is it an expensive designer brand? That's a symptom of superficiality. Note: Don't ever judge a woman just for having a semi-decent handbag, though. A lot of women's clothes don't have pockets for some reason.
- Craziness? We're all a little crazy. You're going to have to be a little more specific about that one.
- Infidelity? Everyone has the potential to cheat. There isn't much of a way to get around this one. I guess you just gotta keep them away from guys like me.
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