Hey guys,

not sure if the is the right section for my post, but if it isnt I apologize, still pretty new around here.

Ok, so I signed up on this forum about a week ago, after already spending quite some time here, in an effort to actually change some things in my life.
Now met up with 3 girls during that last week, apart from doing that whole "Go to a mall and smile/greet strangers" thing. Good stuff.
Anyways, 2 of those meet ups went okish, and the other one HB7 or so actually went quite good. (At least I'd like to think so) We met up a bit earlier (I still felt quite nervous, so I thought a day/coffee date might be simpler for me) but ended up spending the rest of the day together, until latish. I did some negs, sexualised things a bit (spanking routine..that kind of stuff so not too heavy)and build comfort...playfully pumping into her at the beginning and that kind of stuff, so by the end I think she was quite comfortable with my arm being around her when walking, and generally being around me. So I felt quite happy about it, but it bothered me a bit that I actually had 0 idea on how to escalate things a bit further.
So that is my first question, how people here would have handled it differently, but please keep in mind that I'm a Class A example Beta, and still quite nervous.

Ok and then a second question. I also started texting this other girl quite a bit, and actually really started to like her. I can feel that she also enjoys talking to me, and I made her invest some effort into those convos, just to see if she is actually interested or just bored. However I tried setting up a date, but she told me she is too busy SPAM (this was on Saturday) and would like to get back to me on that one. It is test week SPAM, so I do believe that she is busy SPAM.
So my question here is, should I just continue texting her like I have done until now. She told me she really starts to like me, so I'm not sure if she is starting to place me in the possible friendzone, or even texting-buddy zone.
For exactly that reason, I threw in a bit of sexualised stuff right from the beginning of the conversation (again nothing too rough since I dont have experience in that direction), and she brought it back up 2 days later, which I took as a good sign.

Anyways, just 2 questions I ran into. So if someone actually took all that time to read my little beta problems, I would appreciate any kind of response

Keep pushing the 'sexual' envelope. You seem to be gun-shy with letting girls know you are indeed sexually attracted to them.

Sexual tension to a girl, is like what meth is like to an addict.

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Exactly this.

I don't think I can explain it any better. Only mention I have is to let the second girl get back to you. Ball's in her court.

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I actually find it worrying how quickly you managed to see that.
I've always had that problem, and fucked up my fair share of opportunities because of it. Difficult to explain, but eventually when noticing things could advance further, I do get gun-shy...probably the best way to describe it after all.

@R.C
Ok then lets see what happens. Guess you are right about the ball being in her court now.

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Send your 'text buddy' something like "I had an erotic dream last night and guess who was in it? I’ll give you a hint. I’m texting her right now."

No longer pals, but someone with sexual interest,

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Definitely a line Ill try out some time.

Unfortunately with the girl I mentioned above, I'm quite sure it wouldnt work in my favor.
She actually got back to me, and we arranged a meet up.
>Thought it went great, and generally got more from it then I expected.
>fuck actually started to really like that chick
But convo is dying down SPAM, and since we both are quite busy with our studies, its difficult to arrange another meetup.
Eventually I run out of shit to come up with in texts, being the little introvert Iam.

But yeah, Heywood Jablowme your advice was spot on. Noticed it a couple of days ago again while in a club. But not sure how to change that fuck up in my mindset.

You had your arms around her and since it was your first date, she was into you. A little bit of magic and you should have kissed her.
At that time, you should start giving some hints about your desire to kiss her, either verbally or by body language (I prefer this one). One rule is to give eye-contact. Loads of it, mainly when she's talking. Moreover, look at both her eyes and her mouth. Whenever she reciprocates your kino-escalation and starts looking at your mouth also BAM!, she wants your tongue inside her mouth. It's this simple.

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