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PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2016 11:40 pm 
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Again...Denial

You need to understand more about relationships. Women will leave you because:

1. No longer attracted to you
2. Would rather be single
3. Wants to trade you in for another guy
4. Doesn't like how they are treated

You can only trace it back to a fight because that's what your mind logically can see. You think because she says things translates to she 100% means it. Do you think a woman would want a husband that can't support her if things get rough? Do you think that she finds that attractive? I guarantee you that she was thinking about breaking up before your fight. You just couldn't see it because you were comfortable because she put up with your shit all of this time.
Same could also be said about guys leaving women, but regardless I agree that she was done well before he had any idea.


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Same could also be said about guys leaving women
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2016 11:44 pm 
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"She's probably wanted someone new for longer than you think and your argument was the best way to get you out and make it your fault."


No just no, she wanted sex and was very good with me that night, she wanted to marry with me 1 week before. It dont make sense .

Yes i was rude with her the last month and bossed her , we have many brawls etc .
The reason for all that?? The economical problem, nothing more
Anger = needs aren't met and you blame the other person

In other words, it's the tragic expression of unmet needs.


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"She's probably wanted someone new for longer than you think and your argument was the best way to get you out and make it your fault."


No just no, she wanted sex and was very good with me that night, she wanted to marry with me 1 week before. It dont make sense .

Yes i was rude with her the last month and bossed her , we have many brawls etc .
The reason for all that?? The economical problem, nothing more
You live in your own fiction.

She's done with whatever you guys had, let it go. This is all ego and will hurt you more than anyone else.

So 1 week before she wanted to marry me , after 1 week decide to finished it, and after another 1 week she find new boy. Yeah if it work like that the girl is bipolar


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So 1 week before she wanted to marry me , after 1 week decide to finished it, and after another 1 week she find new boy. Yeah if it work like that the girl is bipolar
You're going to do anything to make it seem like there's something wrong with her. How old are you OP? How old is your ex?

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Again...Denial

You need to understand more about relationships. Women will leave you because:

1. No longer attracted to you
2. Would rather be single
3. Wants to trade you in for another guy
4. Doesn't like how they are treated

You can only trace it back to a fight because that's what your mind logically can see. You think because she says things translates to she 100% means it. Do you think a woman would want a husband that can't support her if things get rough? Do you think that she finds that attractive? I guarantee you that she was thinking about breaking up before your fight. You just couldn't see it because you were comfortable because she put up with your shit all of this time.
Same could also be said about guys leaving women, but regardless I agree that she was done well before he had any idea.
Ok, explain me something. We broked up, she said to me that we finished etc.

After 2 days i went to her home to speak, she had me already blocked in facebook but she start to tell me everything, she knew what i posted there and what i wrote there. So she monitor my page from her friends and knew everything, WHY SHE DO THAT IF SHE MOVEN ON ???

After 4 days she find me in a club and she followed me out with her friends to another club, Again why she do that if she moved on ???

Then someone tell her about me that i cheated her, next day she found a boy.

What about her photo, she is totally mess lost a lot of weight and she look like junkie.
If she was nice with her decision i wait for her to be happy at least

I am not egoist, just i am sure that this girl loved me like crazy and just cant move on so easy and forget 2 years. SHE NEED TO MOVE ON , DONT WANT IT

You guys tell me to follow my life, i just do that and thank you for this.
I start dating , and day after day i forget about her.
Really thank you for the help, but all of you are 100% sure that this girl moved on so easy.
Noone tell about rebound relationship or that she is just crazy and act like crazy

One friend (he is pua) tell me that with no contact and if she watch me follow my life she will get jealous and maybe contact me, and that he believe her relationship is just rebound and will end soon.
Why noone support this idea?? I am really curious


She said in mutual friend that she loved me but she cant live with all that brawls and problems, make her sick


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So 1 week before she wanted to marry me , after 1 week decide to finished it, and after another 1 week she find new boy. Yeah if it work like that the girl is bipolar
You're going to do anything to make it seem like there's something wrong with her. How old are you OP? How old is your ex?
You dont know the girl, last 3 months she broke up with 2 of her best friends.
Many people tell me that she is crazy and that i need to broke up with her before.

Finally all of her friends are 4 girls, only 4 girls.
This month she broke up with her childhood best friend because she tell her lies ,
and blocked her in facebook. classic move

You see that like a normal person??


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So 1 week before she wanted to marry me , after 1 week decide to finished it, and after another 1 week she find new boy. Yeah if it work like that the girl is bipolar
You're going to do anything to make it seem like there's something wrong with her. How old are you OP? How old is your ex?
You dont know the girl, last 3 months she broke up with 2 of her best friends.
Many people tell me that she is crazy and that i need to broke up with her before.

Finally all of her friends are 4 girls, only 4 girls.
This month she broke up with her childhood best friend because she tell her lies ,
and blocked her in facebook. classic move

You see that like a normal person??
You said the first year was easy. Where was the bipolar then? She could simply be getting rid of all the useless people in her life. My point is that you are trying to focus on what's wrong with the girl that you were desperately trying to get back a few days ago. I get it...you want to feel better about yourself and protect your ego.

But let's say she lost her childhood best friend because of lying to her. Is it hard to imagine that if she lies to her best friend about anything, why would it be so hard to believe that she would lie to you about wanting to get married?

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and all of us treat womens like shit.
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Our basic problem were the money, i can understand that maybe she wanted to break up but at least
she needed to stay single 1 month or more.
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Again all my money from occasionally jobs went to her, i get her many presents too.
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I wasn't the type of playboy with her or the bad boy and i never cheated her.
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Really i was very bad with her, i was rude and bossed them everywhere.
The last brawl and insults was the last one for her
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My mind is clear now, yeah i dont have money i lived in her place and she paid everything
for me, she bought me presents and everything and even i was the ruler in her place because
i was Alpha.
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She said in mutual friend that she loved me but she cant live with all that brawls and problems, make her sick
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i cheated her only in the first month of our relationship but then i was happy with her , loved her and dont cheated her anymore.
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Yes i was rude with her the last month and bossed her , we have many brawls etc .
The reason for all that?? The economical problem, nothing more
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You see that like a normal person??
To answer your last question...No...I don't see that as a normal person. Tbh both of yall are probably nuts/bipolar. You sound like 3 different dudes using the same account with a different relationship. Ironically you mentioned Tyler durden because this shit sounds just as crazy. Pick a personality and stick with it. Come on man, is this even a true story?


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and all of us treat womens like shit.
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Our basic problem were the money, i can understand that maybe she wanted to break up but at least
she needed to stay single 1 month or more.
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Again all my money from occasionally jobs went to her, i get her many presents too.
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I wasn't the type of playboy with her or the bad boy and i never cheated her.
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Really i was very bad with her, i was rude and bossed them everywhere.
The last brawl and insults was the last one for her
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My mind is clear now, yeah i dont have money i lived in her place and she paid everything
for me, she bought me presents and everything and even i was the ruler in her place because
i was Alpha.
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She said in mutual friend that she loved me but she cant live with all that brawls and problems, make her sick
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i cheated her only in the first month of our relationship but then i was happy with her , loved her and dont cheated her anymore.
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Yes i was rude with her the last month and bossed her , we have many brawls etc .
The reason for all that?? The economical problem, nothing more
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You see that like a normal person??
To answer your last question...No...I don't see that as a normal person. Tbh both of yall are probably nuts/bipolar. You sound like 3 different dudes using the same account with a different relationship. Ironically you mentioned Tyler durden because this shit sounds just as crazy. Pick a personality and stick with it. Come on man, is this even a true story?

HAHAHAHAHA i am laughing hard now, that was good. LOL

My mind is so confused and my post's here are confused too.
i wasnt bad or good , was a mix of all that i wrote

Anyway let it bro, no contact with her and i follow my life. Thanks


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So 1 week before she wanted to marry me , after 1 week decide to finished it, and after another 1 week she find new boy. Yeah if it work like that the girl is bipolar
You're going to do anything to make it seem like there's something wrong with her. How old are you OP? How old is your ex?

You said the first year was easy. Where was the bipolar then? She could simply be getting rid of all the useless people in her life. My point is that you are trying to focus on what's wrong with the girl that you were desperately trying to get back a few days ago. I get it...you want to feel better about yourself and protect your ego.

But let's say she lost her childhood best friend because of lying to her. Is it hard to imagine that if she lies to her best friend about anything, why would it be so hard to believe that she would lie to you about wanting to get married?
My ex broke up with her because she tell her lies, from just a lie.
She broke up with people for fun and easy...

Anyway i am so confused with all that, one day i want her back and one day i dont.
One day i feel like i was the bad in the relationship and other day i change opinion.

Dont know what to say, all my friends tell me that i was good to her and stop feel guilty,
Thanks anyway


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This guy's stuck in a negative feedback loop, I'm out. Best of luck, I know when something's an energy sink and to bail.


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Ok bro why do not you call her and ask for a coffee?

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Ok bro why do not you call her and ask for a coffee?
FFS

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Ok bro why do not you call her and ask for a coffee?
FFS
You can clearly see which guys on the board really struggle with reality and taking any sort of accountability, and how their behavioral patterns scare women away.

I seriously feel bad for the women, they're the unheard victims in all of this lol


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