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PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 8:16 pm 
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I love feminists, they are always down for the most freaky, nasty stuff because they are liberated.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 8:24 pm 
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Nah I wasn't claiming to be a PUA and we weren't in a club, this was a non-sarge situation with two friends, and it actually started off as a discussion between the feminist and I about having certain standards placed on women. She said it was "wrong" for me to expect certain things out of my girlfriend. The AFC comes in and says "don't you know about his bullshit theories on women?" and it just kind of snowballed from there.
In that case, i definitely would have told her to get her ass back in the kitchen.

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This kind of thing happens to all pua's from time to time. One night I had three girls and four guys verbally harass me. I've had other groups do the same. I've been a pua for ten years. On average, I'd say that I am verbally hazed by a group of people every 500 approaches, so it happens twice a year.
Best thing to do is not worry about it. You can't win every argument. Also realize that if you want to stroke your ego and be the big argument guy who defaces others and wins all arguments, don't be a pua. As a pua, you can expect to have your ego crushed like a grape, until there isn't an ego left, which is good because you'll find yourself truly loving women and loving satisfying their needs.
Eventually, you get to the point where a whole bar could deface you and it wouldn't mean a thing to you. By the way, most pua's won't tell you this, running a bar is a do or die situation. If you win, you are the man of the bar and you get to hang with the hot chicks, and hopefully take one home, but if you lose then you will be harassed, called names, get eye rolls, and other assorted demeaning things. Think of it as a comedian bombing on stage. It's the same kind of thing, and yeah, it hurts, but there isn't another way to be a pua in the bar. Even the best comedians and actors bomb on stage sometimes, even though they are the best in the world. Chapelle can tell you about that, so can Robin Williams (RIP).


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why does everyone like so fiercely fight it
Because people don't like to think that there is some kind of dynamic in attraction, Society created a fantasy where people what to have sex with each other, because their personalities combine.

If I was you, I wouldn't bring up the P.U.A thing with everyone. It's not something that people are comfortable with knowing.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2016 12:17 am 
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1. Don't talk to people about game unless you know they are interested.

2. You don't have to justify yourself to anyone about this. It is a fun hobby, yet it is literally the only one where saying you want to practice and improve gets you criticized. If you told someone you wanted to learn auto repair, computer code, a foreign language, or hell an actual game like poker or chess nobody would say "that's fucked up, man, that's gonna kill jobs in the auto repair industry."

3. I wouldn't be friends with someone who so harshly attacked me for my ideas on life, especially ones that didn't involve direct harm to others (pacifism ftw bro).

4. Don't talk to people about this shit, honestly. Just go do it.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2016 11:04 am 
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Op where is your fucking mind, bro it is as ridiculous as arguing the religion as theist with an atheist, vice versa. You should say it is not your business and take a look t your self guys and see how misarable you fucking are. Do not discuss again this topic with people who has not got capacity to understand the fact.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2016 12:52 pm 
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why does everyone like so fiercely fight it
Because people don't like to think that there is some kind of dynamic in attraction, Society created a fantasy where people what to have sex with each other, because their personalities combine.

If I was you, I wouldn't bring up the P.U.A thing with everyone. It's not something that people are comfortable with knowing.
Well, part of the problem is that PUA has a bad reputation as being manipulative and sometimes rapey. You get former-PUA's saying it too after they "see the light." Almost always they spout of things from guys like Roosh, and it makes me wonder if they were inherently manipulative so they mostly looked at the manipulative stuff and ignored the "light side" of PUA.

But then sex tends to make people weird anyway. Like that story of an old guy who got banned from a bar for saying he likes looking at the waitress' cleavage even though everyone knows damn well they are showing cleavage specifically because guys like to look and end up tipping more.


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Op where is your fucking mind, bro it is as ridiculous as arguing the religion as theist with an atheist, vice versa. You should say it is not your business and take a look t your self guys and see how misarable you fucking are. Do not discuss again this topic with people who has not got capacity to understand the fact.
Where is your mind might be an apt question for you considering you're dressing down a guy who posted nine years ago

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Op where is your fucking mind, bro it is as ridiculous as arguing the religion as theist with an atheist, vice versa. You should say it is not your business and take a look t your self guys and see how misarable you fucking are. Do not discuss again this topic with people who has not got capacity to understand the fact.
Where is your mind might be an apt question for you considering you're dressing down a guy who posted nine years ago
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2016 2:20 am 
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I know this is an old thread, but here's my 2 cents;
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So I was talking to a friend of mine, discussing some ideas and theories I have garnered from various pickup resources. Not only did he disagree with everything I said, but he outright SLAMMED me for all of it. Then him and this feminist(figures) girl started just totally ganging up on me and it got to the point where I was being barraged with such bullshit that I couldn't even defend it anymore.

Any similar experiences? It almost makes me lose faith in game stuff, even though I know it works... why does everyone like so fiercely fight it???
First, 99% of PU ideas and theories is BS. So odds are OP WAS saying some stupid stuff. Also, if OP DID have actual proof that his ideas were correct, he wont care. Obviously he read some stuff and doesnt have the real world experience that it works. So he's going off faith. DON'T LISTEN OR SUBSCRIBE TO ANY PU THEORIES UNLESS YOU SEE THE RESULTS FROM IT. Don't harp theories at the bar, or with people because odds are they're just bs. Talk from EXPERIENCE, not THEORIES.

No, it's NOT that PU is right and people just arent comfortable with it. The MAJORITY of it is wrong and actually makes guys worse with women. But they have faith as the OP did, and continue, and when someone tells them its shit, they fight for a theory that they've never proven themselves. Test the theories. Don't have faith that something is correct because it sounds good. Ive met way too many guys who are weird as fuck, who when you tell them stop being weird, they tell you no Tyler said XYZ and 2 years later, they're still weird as fuck following bs advice...No women, no friends, no results. Anyone who tells them stop, is a cockblock or an AFC. Don't talk about something you haven't seen work for you, or at least for someone in your real life.

Prove the theories right or wrong. Dont latch on to any theories, figure the shit out. If you weren't just regurgitating shit you heard, you wont have "lost faith." Stop being fanboys. Think for yourself, and say shit you actually have experience backing.


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If a thread is from 2007, it might be a good idea to just start a new thread on the topic...


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