Want to sent my best friend to your girlfriend?? He is broke as sou say and have no money.
But he bang another girl every night

If you are running around squawking and proving how Alpha you are, your probably not.

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Why not learn from him yourself instead of crying about your ex? He's banging a different girl every night while you're plotting revenge on an ex that you want back.

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Not even fiction.. But a psychotic protagonists fictional mental character... So that's like a fiction in a fiction...

To OP... I thought you were talking about a an alpha male.. Not a guy who is alpha over women. 2 different things. Maybe your friend and you should stop focusing on banging every night and at least figure out how to take care of yourselves first. If you're living off of a chick.. That's all fine.. But youre a boy still. And nothing wrong with that.. I just thought you meant real alpha male not alpha leeches. Seriously... Maybe take that drive and alpha ness and at least have some money saved up or a job after you've lived off someone for 2 years. If you're gonna leech at least improve yourself through leeching so you're not broke when a chick kicks you out.

No matter how many girls you and your friend bang per night I'll call you what you 2 are... Bums. Vagrants with charm. And nothing wrong with not have much money but you had and have no interest in improving your situation.

Well, my ex go out in clubs every night with her new lover.
When they come across my friends she kissed him like crazy

I cant go out , i feel shame for her and even afraid of her now.
She is totally lost her mind and act like psycho


p.s. Alpha male is a function anyway, everyone can see Alpha different

We are not bums man, we trying to find job and improve our life but in our city unemployment rate is 70%.

You cant call me bum without knowing me, come tell me that face to face

1. Lol. Why am I gonna come see you? To fuck around and fight you, deal with the cops and fuck my career over while you get a place to sleep and some meals in jail with me? No. Simple rule in life, dont mess with people who have nothing to lose.

2. You are a bum. I dnt know what they call it over there, but a broke dude, living off his chick is a bum.

3. Even then, if you are a bum, at least be a smart one. Thats just real advice. If you're gonna live off your chick and be a jerk, save your money. Get her to pay for some courses. At least when she leaves you'd be in a place to get a job. At LEAST, take her $ and leave the 70% unemployment rate city. Or if you didnt want to be smart about it, then at least be good to the chick. Even the bum dudes here know to be nice so the girl doesnt kick them out. Treat girls like shit if you want, but damn...be smart about it.

4. Improve your life. You shouldnt even be THINKING about chicks or exs until you take care of yourself first. I'd be busting my ass looking for work or trying to get new skills if I were you, NOT worrying about some chick. And your friend....maybe you shouldnt be associating with other broke dudes. THATS WHY YOU'RE BROKE. You hang with other brokes. Find people who can HELP you, beyond getting you laid.

Thats just some real advice. Anyone can go through a rough patch. But dude...grow up. Stop worrying about this chick and revenge and handle your situation. I call you a bum, because thats what you are. And maybe realizing that will fill you with some shame to fix your shit, before you even think about who's dicking your ex.

I see a lot of guys in this and other situations who try to manipulate their ex (or any girl for that matter) into a relationship.

Next time you want something from someone, ask yourself these two very important questions:

1) How can I get that person to do what I want them to do?

AND more importantly,

2) What do I want their reasons to be for doing it?

If you just go by the first question, sure there's all sorts of ways we can get people to do the things we want them to do. This is how people think punishment works (and why, for example, the prison system is effective in creating more violent people).

If you ask yourself the second question, what do you want their reasons for doing it to be, you'll quickly see how punishment and reward doesn't work.

In this situation, if you use jealousy to try and win a woman back it will in some situations SEEM to work short-term. But since her reasons for chasing you are out of fear, there's no chance in hell the relationship will be healthy and contribute to wellbeing for either person. It just reinforces power OVER others, not the sorta power conducive to building healthy relationships.


This is why most Pickup doesn't work for building healthy relationships and instead perpetuates insecurity.

"This is why most Pickup doesn't work for building healthy relationships and instead perpetuates insecurity."

n2thevoid well said , this is the truth

My ex were jealous with me , crazy jealous, i treated her without much respect and i wanted her to tryin to impress me all the time. In first year was easy but the last months she realized that this relationship dont work
and left in pain ( she believe i cheated her etc)

The truth is that i loved her and wanted to change but my economic situation was bad, thanks God now i am near a good job at least. She needed to make patience and wait for better days but she moved on in just a week and even she tryin to make me feel bad.

She kiss her new boy every time when she come across friends of mine so they come and tell me

neo87 call us bums, ok he is right to tell that but this is not the problem here.
Most pua's and playboy's out there are bums , make rich girls fall in love with them and then eat their money

There is not a hint of remorse in your words from treating her like shit. No sense of responsibility for being a bad guy. I dont know whether your ex and this new guy will work, maybe, maybe not, but just from reading it, she's is better off without you in her life. Am I wrong? He could be the most "beta" guy in the world, but at least she isnt getting treated like shit or has a guy eating off of her money. She needed patience? For what? Would you have stopped treating her like shit once you got a job? You dont "want " to change, your time to change how you treated her was a long time ago. There is a thread in this section by an abused guy, and no one is telling him to be patient with his current insulting gf. He should leave asap, as your gf did.

You have playboyism and pua twisted in your head. The guys that eat of their women, dont go falling in love if they know they're treating them like shit. You have the idea of being a playboy and a boyfriend messed up. If you love someone treat them well. If you're gonna eat off someone, treat them well. If you're gonna eat of someone and not treat them well, improve yourself with their money and dont give a fuck if they leave. What I'm saying is, if you're gonna be a boyfriend, be good at being a bf. If you're gonna be a playboy/bum, be good at being a playboy/bum. This weird "treat girls like shit/but can get heartbroken/dependent financially on them" game, is just a dumb way to do it. You were bad at bumming, and bad at being a bf. Become good at one. Your choice.

Op listen what neo87 say, experience talking. Put your shit back together and think how could you get your ass out this crap.

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Its not actually like that, i loved her and we had good times but bad times too.
I search for job all that time and wanted to change everything, help her financially and
have a good happy life. She needed to do only patience , not fight with me every day

Our basic problem were the money, i can understand that maybe she wanted to break up but at least
she needed to stay single 1 month or more. Rebound relationship not going to help her

Do you think its nice to kiss her new boy (a beta guy 20 years old) in front of my friends every night,
what she want to do with that?? Take revenge?? Ok

neo87 you are wrong here, i wanted to help her, really
but my financial situation was bad

Again all my money from occasionally jobs went to her, i get her many presents too.
I wasn't the type of playboy with her or the bad boy and i never cheated her.
I really wanted her for my wife but she was so much jealous and even now she
believe that i cheated her and that i never loved her, All that its wrong

I am curious, why did you buy her "many presents" and give her "all my money"?

Help her in the house bills , and make presents because she made many presents to me too,
so i wanted to be equal to her and nice. Dont forget that we wanted to engaged this month...

She was very good to me and wanted to have sex that night, i refused and she said that i dont love her anymore.
The truth is that i had problems with the work and money so my mind was there,
then she start to grumble and we start a fight.
I am really hot-tempered.This is my bad characteristic, i insulted her hard that night
and she tell me that she dump me because we have so many fights that last month and i dont
love her anymore, i am not good with her etc

I thought it was just a break up and i wanted to get her back but she moved on with the first guy she met
in a club after just a week. Its a young guy just 20 years old and she never wanted guys younger than her.
She is 26 years old and i am 30 now.

I am sure that this is a rebound relationship and they will end soon, but i cant imagine that we can get back together after that she did. I must move on and i had a date today with a 19 years old girl.

I do the same, i go for the rebound.
n2thevoid what you believe?? In my mind its all finished ....