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PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2016 6:22 pm 
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( Hope the topic is in the right section if not let me know )

Well need you to help me to analyze the situation and tell me if I have a chance because since it's in the office after all it's a bit more risky but still worth a try maybE?

Gonna try to make it short so..
So I am working in sales and we are like 20 people on the same desk and there is one girl which is 26 years old ( I am only 21 years old ) she started to work like 1 month ago and I greeted her and all and we've been in a nice touch like nothing special speaking here and there for a minute and that's all.. now she tells me once in a while when we speak about something that i am so young and so fun for me to be young and also she told me that she has two girl friends that would love the way I look I dont know if it means much.
Now yesterday there was a company party and we were dancing a bit and took pictures .
So today morning while I was sleeping she tried to call me and also sent me a message on whatsup with my name .
So I answerd "hey wha'ts up " then she sends me a voice record " On a scale of one to ten how terrible the pictures we took were ? I just got a flashback I pictured with you " then it was a casual small 5 minutes chi chat and then nothing because I am a bit afraid to try something because of the age barrier..
And today for example she sent me another whatsup message asking me what time to arrive tomorrow
like I am her " contact ".
So what do you think?


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2016 6:38 pm 
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The better question is what do you think? If you think she's giving you signals, then act on it. The worst thing that can happen is you misread them and you can find another girl.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2016 7:11 pm 
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The better question is what do you think? If you think she's giving you signals, then act on it. The worst thing that can happen is you misread them and you can find another girl.
yes but I dont know if she's givng me signals or not .. if I had a solid opinion I wouldnt be asking and obviously try to take action but it's a bit harder and you look for that extra confirmation ( because it's a job after all and I dont want it to be awkward )


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2016 7:20 pm 
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The better question is what do you think? If you think she's giving you signals, then act on it. The worst thing that can happen is you misread them and you can find another girl.
yes but I dont know if she's givng me signals or not .. if I had a solid opinion I wouldnt be asking and obviously try to take action but it's a bit harder and you look for that extra confirmation ( because it's a job after all and I dont want it to be awkward )
I'm telling you this because you'll get different opinions here on what her intentions are. You learning to act is what's going to get you over the hump.

Personally, I'm not a fan of dating women I work with, but asking her out to drinks after work or hanging out together shouldn't be a problem.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2016 7:32 pm 
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The better question is what do you think? If you think she's giving you signals, then act on it. The worst thing that can happen is you misread them and you can find another girl.
yes but I dont know if she's givng me signals or not .. if I had a solid opinion I wouldnt be asking and obviously try to take action but it's a bit harder and you look for that extra confirmation ( because it's a job after all and I dont want it to be awkward )
I'm telling you this because you'll get different opinions here on what her intentions are. You learning to act is what's going to get you over the hump.

Personally, I'm not a fan of dating women I work with, but asking her out to drinks after work or hanging out together shouldn't be a problem.
So what you're saying is to try and see if she wants to hang out with me and if she is being negative then I misunderstood her intentions and if she's positive then go for it?


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2016 7:52 pm 
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 02, 2016 9:20 pm 
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Do not overthink, normally i d say that you should not date with women from your work but c'mon in your case oy should not be a problem. It is a small stone in your shoe, you ot is up to you, put it off or go on with this small piece of shit.

If you wanna bang her go and bang let your penis talks.

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Do not overthink, normally i d say that you should not date with women from your work but c'mon in your case oy should not be a problem. It is a small stone in your shoe, you ot is up to you, put it off or go on with this small piece of shit.

If you wanna bang her go and bang let your penis talks.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2016 8:40 pm 
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The better question is what do you think? If you think she's giving you signals, then act on it. The worst thing that can happen is you misread them and you can find another girl.
yes but I dont know if she's givng me signals or not .. if I had a solid opinion I wouldnt be asking and obviously try to take action but it's a bit harder and you look for that extra confirmation ( because it's a job after all and I dont want it to be awkward )
Unfortunately, its going to be awkward regardless if you hit on someone at work. That's just the way it is.


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If you're afraid to try something because of the age barrier you don't qualify to be with her. Just hook up with one of her friends.

When them things matter to you, they will affect your frame in such a way that you won't be able to generate the high levels of attraction that you would like. Now if you can get over the slight difference and age and realize that it doesn't matter you'll be fine.

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