Was he drunk when you tweeted as well?

Also the type of texts you send your fwb when drunk are more along the lines of "I want to fuck you" and less along the lines of "I miss you".
The only thing his "tactic" accomplished, as you can clearly see, is turning her off.

How the hell are you gonna use "tactics" to get more sex from a girl with whom you have a sex only relationship? Do you not see how ridiculous that is?

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No he was sober when he asked if I was okay. Yea his drunk texts were not sexual at all. He did say I want to sleep with you. I took that as literally sleep lol because I don't know any drunk person at 24 saying that to mean sex. Like you said it would've been sexual. The thing is he hasn't mentioned dinner or even acknowledged what he said period.

If you want to fuck him, do that. If you don't want him getting all butt hurt, give the 'ol LJBF's. So he can have a good cry and move forward. I'm betting you have other options.

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Look I'm not saying alcohol had nothing to do with it. It clearly had.

I'm just saying that he's catching feeling and he won't get any better. This little even was an indicative towards that.

Most FWB relationships end because someone at some point becomes too invested. This seems to be the start of just that. Do whatever you want, but just be aware of it.

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R.C. pretty much covered what I said in the duplicate post but he did it providing more detail. The thing you have to remember about FWB or FB relationships is that they are sexual relationships based on time. One person is going to want more based on time spent together. The process of avoiding the emotional part of the relationship is tension building.

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I typed feelings with quotation marks meaning that your use of the term implies that you entered into a sexual relationship with this person assuming there was no feelings, when in fact there was. Allow me to explain...

1. This is someone you're friends with and you decided to turn this sexual. There obviously is at least one person who is interested and if there isn't, there is one person who is possibly going to be interested.

2. You never watched the film friends with benefits, and if you did you completely ignored the emphasis they placed on sex being an emotional interaction, where people can fall in love after.

3. Jason Capital says you should never tell a girl you love her until you've slept with her. Obviously what he means to say is that you usually do fall in love, for real, after you've had sex, which also emphasizes the very real power sex has to make people fall in love.

4. You don't know this or you do know this, all of 1-3 and yet you're put off that he caught feelings.

5. You post your question on a forum with people much like myself, we all offer you solid advice, and you still probably don't get it. Yes, he wants to fuck. And yes, he obviously wants to fuck you because he has no other options and he's got feelings, or he has options but loves you exclusively now.

You should accept the fact that having had sex with your friend let to something that normally would happen. That having sex at all is a risk not only of contracting something, but of having someone become emotionally invested in you. This is a risk you took, and now you have a natural outcome which you question.

Obviously you expected things to turn out differently. They would have if you just had a one night stand instead...but no, you had sex with someone a connection was built with.

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OP, is this the same guy here or is this a different guy?

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If he's the same guy, obviously, you liked him but since he sucked in bed and wasn't able to redeem himself in the bedroom department, you no longer like him. If he's the same guy, he's just like any guy out there who is horny and confused about the feeings on his penis versus the feelings on his heart.

If this is the same guy, please, let's not be judgmental about the OP on why she fucked him in the first place.

If this is a different guy, he's just drunk, that's all. "In wine there is truth," as the old German saying aptly says. If a guy is drunk and he has feelings for the girl, he'll likely say, "I love you" instead of "I miss you". Generally speaking, men are very direct. If this was a drunk gentleman, he's not going to say, "I want to fuck you right now, pound your pussy real hard, and jizz all my cum on your face." He'll likely say something along the lines of... "I miss you. Let's have dinner and lay by the grasses as we watch the feeble moon carress the secrets of heaven."

Or whatever.

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When was the last time you seen him before he started sending you the " I want to hold you" text messages?

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Why is this so complicated?

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Not since he Valentines Day. He asks me almost every week to see me but the first two weeks I went MIA on him and the recently I got sick for over a week and then left for a business trip but he keeps trying.

Wait, why would a guy call a girl he's not in a relationship with and has only been casually dating say "I love you"? lol. Now that's extreme to me, drunk or not lol.

Before he spent Valentines Day with me we would talk dirty. He was pretty explicit actually so I feel like if he was drunk and horny he would've reverted back to his vulgar speak. Obviously could be wrong though.

Because he made it complicated lol.

I thought it was just going to be strictly about sex. I never contacted him, we talked dirty, and he even knew that I wanted to sleep with him but then he wanted to spend Valentines Day together, cook dinner, and now all of this stuff ^^.

Are you enjoying the attention? Be honest. Because this could be simple-ed down pretty easily.

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