Hey guys

One of my best mates is dating an italian girl. She has a sister and after I turned single he has been begin me to go after his girlfriends sister, who luckily happens to be stunning.

Some days ago, I got a friend request from her on Facebook and two days later, she wrote to me and asked me if I was considering to go and visit them with my friend which she thought was a great idea. Then my friend told me that she apparently had been writing to my friend's girlfriend, telling her that she thought i looked good, sweet etc...

Well long story short, we booked plain tickets and are going there in the middle of April. The only problem is that this girl is writing me every day and I am not a real fan of texting, because all the mystery disappears if we already know everything about each other. I am also in support of not talking to much, because I know that girls in generel love the unknown and the mystery. But maybe she is just writing to me because she wants to make sure I am not a creep haha

Anyway, how do I handle this? Should i tell her that I am not a big fan of texting, but that I am looking forward to meeting her? Should i just keep it to one text a day (possibly making her think that I am not interested) or should I just keep texting her, build rapport and when she finds out that I am alright she will probably text less and then the problem is solved?

Looking forward to get some always solid advice.

I would advise yourself to be busy, so you don't have a reason to text all the time, the rest you can fix when youre there i guess, I'm no master just my opinion

Oh just relax will you?

I've had girls that I texted with 24/7 and girl I text with once every few days. There's no rule. There's only quality. As long as you're not talking about the weather you're fine.

And yes women like some mystery, but texting isn't about serious conversation. It's about flirting, bantering, fun and teasing.
The only thing she should know about you over text is your sense of humor and general feel of your personality.

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I know a girl who is not a real fan of calling, and I’m not a real fan of texting. I don’t go crazy about the control thing, like showing her I need to be in control, I’m just very natural with her about everything.

Honestly, if she text me and I don’t feel like texting I had the little phone symbol in the upper corner and call her, because I’ve explained to her I don’t like texting, so if I feel like texting I will, if not I will call her and it’s her choice. If she wants to pick up the phone or not.

Whatever you tell her, just tell her what you’re feeling. Don’t run through a whole algorithm in your head of “should I say this, because going to attract her, or should I not say this, because it’s not going to attract her.”

Alpha males don’t do that shit. Tell her you’re looking forward to meeting her, and just say it to be nice, without any expectation of anything in return, because you’re actually considering her feelings instead of just your needs, and you want to be nice to her.

She may find out your all right, or she may find another guy who actually starts talking to her and texts her every single day because you won’t bother to call or text her, and some other guy jumps in on her.

Honestly, it sounds like all your thinking about is yourself, and your not wanting her to see your real personality, so you’re trying to figure out how to put on a ACT to say and do what you think is going to create the image that you’re alpha male. What you trying to hide?

I’m not trying to be mean but I really just don’t understand it.

All I know is, when I’m dealing with girls, I’m always in control of situations simply because I don’t say or do anything I don’t want to do, and the girl knows that. End of story.

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You can use it to build tension if you can be as blunt as forward in person as you can via text. She has to be talking to the same guy when she sees you in person but you can use texting to establish some sexual tension.