Hi guys,

I need some advise regarding my situation. Shortly:

I'm abroad with my colleagues from work, staying in a 5 star hotel for the next 30 days. 40 girls from the other department and 20 of my male colleagues.

This morning I met a new girl from the other department, but I'm very confused whether she likes me or not. She is new in the company and I guess she is still shy.

I didn't follow any approaches and etc., just on the morning breakfast I invited her on my table. We talked, but most of the time it was one way conversation, I talked and she was listening. She was acting very strange, she was smiling sometimes (a true smile), but most of the time she didn't express much emotions. She was listening with interest, but she didn't share anything. (BTW I was asking her open questions).

Today late afternoon I met her at the swimming pool. Again we talked, but still her body language is very strange. She doesn't change her pose at all, but what confused me was the fact, that at certain point everybody left the swimming pool, except me and one of my colleagues. She is not interested in him for sure, however she stayed, but didn't showed much interest in me too. She wasn't enjoying the swimming pool, because it was too hot for her, but why she stayed?

I need help for the following things:

What should be my next step in order to make her talk freely?
How can I meet her in privacy and make her feel comfortable in order to have a proper two way conversation?
I asked her to join me for a coffee later today, she agreed, but she didn't take any contact details of me. I didn't give her any, because I wanted to see if she will ask. However, she didn't ask and went up to her room. (Since we're staying in a hotel, she can find my room number very easy from the reception).

At the end, my final goal is to have some nice time only two of us and find out wether she likes me or not.

I'll be very happy if you guide me trough this situation.

Regards,

Why the hell are you waiting for her to do your job? She's sitting in her room right now, thinking Whiskey*Tango*Foxtrot* Why didn't he ask for MY number?

Is your only goal a stimulating private conversation? 'Cause she'd likely rather have your penis in her.

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Dear god talk about half assing it. You didn't ask for her number because you wanted to see if she would ask for yours?

I really don't have the mental fortitude to even attempt explaining just how ridiculous that is.

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Hang on guys,

30 minutes after I posted the topic I managed to get in touch with her. I asked her to go out for a coffee, but she denied. She said "There will be time for coffee, but not now". That confused me. Anyway, on that night she was acting strange, I mean she was avoiding any eye contact with me (not that she's shy). On the next day I was waiting for some document on the hotel reception and she passed me, like I'm not there.
I think something went wrong, but I don't know what. Is there anything I can do to bring her interest back to me?

Window of opportunity. Fail to take action and it's gone.

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Ok guys,

Shall I just forget about her or there is something I can do?

Regards,

In best scenario, u need to have relation between her, for it, take a look to her fb. Get info from there, next time when u see her, just be direct, speak about her interest(if there is shared between you two) and aim to be nice to her. Women are good BS detectors so be good at natural vibe.

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I am no expert but my suggestion would be to back away, have fun and talk to some of the 39 other girls there. Either you find some other girl that has a real interest in you, or you will make yourself more interesting to the original girl by being the life of the party... the quickest way to create attention is to remove yours...

Dear god no.
Absolutely correct.

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Answer this for me... Does she know that you like her?

Given the interactions they had, she doesn't like him... Won't matter if he likes her.

Not necessarily. Girls like guys with balls. If he was acting all awkward and shit because he liked he but never showed it, she's going to probably act the same way.

If he had shown he liked her, he would have gotten a DEFINITE response as to whether or not she liked him.