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My name is Chris,
I was basically your typical nerdy kid who grew up not really having any success with women, I’ve spent over 10 years getting hands-on experience dealing with women.
I’m not a woman “hater” or “basher” - I don’t take out my anger on women, because in my mind everything that they’ve ever done to me is the fault of my own behavior, and me for allowing them to do it.
But in general I love women, and anything unfavorable they do to me is because I allow it to happen.
I basically live by the model that I’m responsible for every result I get, and if I don’t like what’s done to me it’s my responsibility to change it.
For the longest time I tried all the seduction stuff, and after YEARS of trying it, I got 0 lays, 0 dates, and 0 girlfriends - I nno it worked for a lot of people, but I was especially socially retarded lol.
Today I pretty much say and do whatever I feel like, and if women want to come along for the ride that’s great.
I studied a lot of the stuff from Zan, David D., Mystery, David X, Gambler, and a whole bunch of other stuff, and the biggest problem I found with the industry is that it focuses on labels, and having an IQ of almost 150 I figured I should be able to master these things pretty easily like I did with everything else in school.
However, I realize the problem is these things operate on and instinctual, emotional level, and most of the "seduction community" last time I was involved with that operated on a intellectual level of trying to turn something that was all about confidence and having balls into a thought process, where you could create a fake personality that embodied all those traits.
For example, Zan tells you to be “romantic”, David D. tells you be “cocky and funny”, David X tells you to be a “gentleman”, and they all basically try to give you a label, and tell you how to put on an identity, rather than bring out your own personality.
The truth is it’s confidence that attracts women, and there is confidence underlying a romantic person, a bad boy, a cocky and funny person, but the thing is you ultimately don’t need any of those because when you use your own personality the right way you can bring out the straight of confidence that attracts women.
After a while I gave up trying to be like all these guys, and just started working on developing my own confidence, and bringing out these alpha traits in my own personality.
Basically, I stopped trying to attract women, and started working on myself, and by working on myself, I naturally began to attract women, and that was the first time after seven years of trying that I started having any success—funny paradox how that works.
Because of this, I made myself into a confident, fearless guy who doesn’t tolerate any ship from anyone, and I don’t need to “practice” attracting women to keep my “game” up, because I naturally a become everything an alpha male is inside and out.
But yup, that’s basically me in a nutshell. Really excited to be here though, I love reading what everyone has to say, answering questions, and getting to know people.
Thanks so much for having me. I look forward to meeting all of you.
I did read some of your posts/replies looks like good stuff. Welcome.
CHAT