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PostPosted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 12:11 am 
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I've been smooth and cunning with women all my life, but I have what you'd call "resting bitch face"...

Everywhere I look, PUAs all over mention flashing a smile towards your prey, but I lack in doing this.
My roots trace to living poor and being neglected in a cheap trailer in south Houston for 8 years of childhood, then having a lot of aggression in earlier teen years, so now I'm not much to flash a smile all the time.

What I'm asking is: Does it matter whether or not I give a gal a bright smile in my introduction?

Whether or not you have a solid answer, any opinion would be appreciated.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 2:57 am 
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I've been smooth and cunning with women all my life, but I have what you'd call "resting bitch face"...

Everywhere I look, PUAs all over mention flashing a smile towards your prey, but I lack in doing this.
My roots trace to living poor and being neglected in a cheap trailer in south Houston for 8 years of childhood, then having a lot of aggression in earlier teen years, so now I'm not much to flash a smile all the time.

What I'm asking is: Does it matter whether or not I give a gal a bright smile in my introduction?

Whether or not you have a solid answer, any opinion would be appreciated.
that's so funny I was actually thinking about this today. I hate smiling. It just doesn't feel natural to me.
Look at yourself in the mirror without smiling. do you look like a serial killer? If you were a girl, would you feel comfortable talking to that person?
For me the answer was no. so today I decided to start smiling. How I will do it: there is a very funny youtube video that I will think about every time I need to smile.
There is some theory that a serious face looks more attractive to girls than a smiling face. But you want the serious face for later on, when the girl already feels comfortable.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 8:49 am 
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What I'm asking is: Does it matter whether or not I give a gal a bright smile in my introduction?
Yes. It does. Smiling at someone makes them feel good about themselves. It's makes them feel secure because you're subcommunicating friendliness. You're not a threat. It makes them more open and you start the conversation off on a positive note before you even open your mouth.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 4:49 am 
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Watch a few James Bond movies, how often do you see Daniel Craig smile?

Yet you’ll see him quite a few times give those smirks to women where he just airs them down and looks him straight in the eye.

I remember the phrase in the Bible, “forgive them father, for they know not what they do”, and that basically sums up most of these pickup “gurus”.

Many of them have the best of intentions, and their methods work for THEM, but they have no idea what they’re doing when they’re teaching someone else.

They’re basically telling you your personality is wrong, and the only way to attract women is to adopt there’s.

The fact is what’s gonna attract a woman is knowing that your confident, and that you have the strength to take care of her.

Think about how many black guys that women find sexy and badass who have a huge smile on their face.

No! They come across as dominant, and like they would whip her across the room and a bedroom and to shove her against the wall and start talking the shit out of her.

Now, I’m personally not like this, I smile and laugh a lot.

If you ever watch Donald Trump, the guys a billionaire who doesn’t give a crap what anyone else thinks, but you’ll see them with that big smirk on his face all the time.

The reason he can do that is because the rest of the time is personality is showing everyone knows he doesn’t give a crap what anyone else thinks.

So regardless of whether or not he smiles people know he will take them down if they mess with him, and they know he’s an alpha male.

Hope that helps!

And to RC's comment, while it makes logical sense, I've made plenty of women "feel good about themselves", and then they ditch you the minute their DOMINANT ex-bf shows up who takes control and gets their pussy what.

Your job is into impress a girl -- it's to get her ATTRACTED to you -- do you like cigarettes because they're nice to you? No you like them because your internally chemically ADDICTED to them.

If you want to go to be interested in you, it's not so much about being "likable" it's about creating a addiction in her mind, and a chemical dependency on YOU like a drug.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 4:59 am 
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Watch a few James Bond movies, how often do you see Daniel Craig smile?

Yet you’ll see him quite a few times give those smirks to women where he just airs them down and looks him straight in the eye.

I remember the phrase in the Bible, “forgive them father, for they know not what they do”, and that basically sums up most of these pickup “gurus”.

Many of them have the best of intentions, and their methods work for THEM, but they have no idea what they’re doing when they’re teaching someone else.

They’re basically telling you your personality is wrong, and the only way to attract women is to adopt there’s.

The fact is what’s gonna attract a woman is knowing that your confident, and that you have the strength to take care of her.

Think about how many black guys that women find sexy and badass who have a huge smile on their face.

No! They come across as dominant, and like they would whip her across the room and a bedroom and to shove her against the wall and start talking the shit out of her.

Now, I’m personally not like this, I smile and laugh a lot.

If you ever watch Donald Trump, the guys a billionaire who doesn’t give a crap what anyone else thinks, but you’ll see them with that big smirk on his face all the time.

The reason he can do that is because the rest of the time is personality is showing everyone knows he doesn’t give a crap what anyone else thinks.

So regardless of whether or not he smiles people know he will take them down if they mess with him, and they know he’s an alpha male.

Hope that helps!

And to RC's comment, while it makes logical sense, I've made plenty of women "feel good about themselves", and then they ditch you the minute their DOMINANT ex-bf shows up who takes control and gets their pussy what.

Your job is into impress a girl -- it's to get her ATTRACTED to you -- do you like cigarettes because they're nice to you? No you like them because your internally chemically ADDICTED to them.

If you want to go to be interested in you, it's not so much about being "likable" it's about creating a addiction in her mind, and a chemical dependency on YOU like a drug.
I disagree. Yes, girls like a serious face. But at the first interaction, they feel nervous so to calm them down, you need to smile, so they know you're friendly and not some serial killer. AFTER she feels comfortable with you, then you can start with your serious face.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 5:13 am 
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I disagree. Yes, girls like a serious face. But at the first interaction, they feel nervous so to calm them down, you need to smile, so they know you're friendly and not some serial killer. AFTER she feels comfortable with you, then you can start with your serious face.
So tell me this, how are you going to feel if after the first interaction new made her comfortable, but some bold, straightforward guy got her pussy wet, and now all she can think about is calling and texting him?

Are you going to be happy with that arrangement? Do you really care about making her feel comfortable, or do you want to make her ADDICTED to you?

It doesn't matter if you made her "feel comfortable" and likes you. All that matters is she sexually aroused, and when she goes home at night she's unable to stop thinking about you because you're such a dominant presence in her life.

How many guys do you meet who get a shitload of women who have a straight face, or more serious demeanor, versus having a huge smile on their face all the time. Of course there are exceptions, but in general, maybe I'm wrong, but where I live I don't see women jumping into bed with guys just because they smile off.

I see them jumping into bed with guys who were dominant and get their pussy wet.

again referred to the James Bond example of Daniel Craig - you can completely make a woman feel comfortable with you without smiling.

I've done it 1 million times in my life, and anyone who says you can't simply has read a bunch of books, but doesn't have enough street experience to know what works in the real world.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 11:02 pm 
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If I don't smile, girls think I'm a psycho. I've also got long hair, a beard, and legs that are probably as big as your waist. I'm a pretty intimidating person when I don't smile. Everyone is different but I'd say it's usually in your best interest to smile.

You don't have to smile like a clown trying to be funny. But more so smile because you see a hot girl that you can have fun with.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2016 10:54 am 
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You should smile.

I used to not show my teeth during pictures, or selfies. I very easily smirk, which is natural for me, and girls tend to like the smirk. But the real winner is smiling, showing teeth. It's unnatural to force yourself to smile, and girls have a sense of a fake smile, as well. I can't cite the study, but there was a study done where it showed women are more capable of detecting a fake smile in pictures than men.

So a fake smile isn't going to work.

Something I started doing a few months ago: When I go to take a selfie, and people are around me, I'll usually say something like "ER MEH GERD IT'S SELFIE TIME!" to get them to laugh at me, which in turn makes me laugh, which in turn makes for a good selfie for me to send to a girl via text.

Another example: The other day my roommate (girl, super hot, HB9) wanted to take some glam shots of me. I dressed in a three piece suit, she takes pictures. While taking the pictures we were having a good time, and I was naturally smiling. But at one point I was sitting at my piano, and I tried to fake smile. She said something was wrong, and immediately I said "It's because my smile is fake. . . I can't think of anything funny. Make me laugh!" Her eye was in the camera viewfinder, she lifts her shirt and flashes me her tit. I cracked up laughing, and she took a fucking amazing picture of me with a huge cheesy smile, fingers on the piano keys.

For a natural smile, I suggest just letting your mouth hang open more. I watched a youtube video a few months ago of a guy who was "picking up girls" by kissing them after like ten seconds of meeting. Of course it's one of those dumbassed videos that has a technique you should never try, but what I really noticed about this guy was that as he was talking, he always let his mouth hang open in between. Because his mouth was hanging open, any time he would crack a smile, he showed teeth, and it looked more friendly.

So now I let my mouth hang open while I'm talking to people. If they say something even remotely entertaining, I smile a tiny bit, it shows teeth, and it's more fun.

Of course my natural smile is still the smirk, which I've done my entire life.

One more thing. The other night I was going through my facebook pictures. I started taking selfies a little over a year ago, when I found myself single. I noticed a vast improvement over my selfie picture taking to this point. My old selfies were all with a smirk, which looks super judgmental and just flat out kinda weird, really. Now my selfies all have good smiles, they show teeth, and I'm genuinely laughing about something. What's more important is that it's hard to laugh while alone taking a selfie, so now most of my selfies are with other people, usually girls! So I have this big assed collection of up-to-date selfies of me with other girls, and I'm laughing. When I'm texting a new girl, I send her a selfie of me laughing with a cute girl, who's also laughing.

Girl: What are you up to?
Me: **SELFIE WITH GIRL, I'M SMILING**
Me: Just hanging out with a friend. You?

Boom! I'm fun, I smile, girls smile around me, and I'm pre-selected by multiple attractive girls!

So anyway. Yeah. Smile.


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