Think the title is self explanatory. I find myself where girls offer ios, not even just my interactions. As a whole or attention seeking behaviour for it to not lead anwyehere. There will aldehyde be a certain amount of doubt as to whether will or will not go out with with you, but how do you seperate the time wasters quickly ?

Push hard. If she doesn't like it.... Well, there ya go.

....physically? mentally ?

Ask them to hang out.

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By escalating. If she acts all into you but refuses to meet up, she's wasting your time.

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Focus on her ACTIONS rather than her words. For example, If she cancels the plan at the last moment with some fucked up excuse, don't believe her excuse. Rather see her actions i.e she didn't take time to meet you and not kept her word. That's how you identify a time waster.

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Yes I agree style I'm a big believer of this think all newbies need to bo aware of this. I made a post not too long ago mentioning this. Me personally like any new skills make it easy for yourself, then as you get better you do more advanced things eg.

Beginner) only look for girls that show high interest in you
Advanced) when that becomes easy, try to get girls where things are more difficult, where she doesn't seem that into you or logistics are bad and all that other pua bs lingo.

It's like the gym, don't train like a pro bodybuilder unless you are one. Train like a beginner if that's what level you're at

1. Get her alone/isloated with you
2. Escalate

If she doesn't reciprocate, is obviously uncomfortable, then you have your answer.

If she does reciprocate, then you have your answer

Anything else is just fluff. If after a 2-3 attempts to meet up she blanks you, then move on.

If you try escalating and she OBVIOUSLY shuts you down, then move on

What do you mean by "time wasters"? Are you considering a girl a waste of time because she will go out with you and you have a good time but she doesn't wanna fuck? Are you considering a girl a time waster because she's always hitting you up on the phone and talking on the phone but won't meet up? etc

If you are talking about girls that like to play phone tag and sit on the phone for long lengths of time but not actually meet up, if you allow them to waste your time, that's your fault. Limit phone interactions, especially before you get intimate. It should be mainly used for making contact after long stretches of no contact and for making plans. Unless I'm dating the girl and serious about her then I'm rarely talking on the phone with her, and if I do then it's for five minutes or less to work out logistics. For texting it's a few messages every few days unless we are working out plans to meet up. If a girl gives me shit for not wanting to talk or for not texting her all day (like "You've been ignoring me!") I just respond with something like "It's all good girl, I've been busy with work, and I want to go check out this place later, why don't you tag along and we can actually hang out." Just NEVER apologize for being busy unless you are dating this girl and haven't been making time for her. Never give in to her phone demands. If she wants you on the phone or texting, that's because she wants a little chat buddy when she's bored. I don't want these girls. I want a girl that likes going out and having fun and likes to meet up for sex or whatever.

If you are talking about the girls that go out but don't end up in your bed then you have to ask yourself what you are looking for. I don't get upset if I went out and had a cool time or interesting conversation with a girl and didn't fuck her. The only thing I consider lost time is if I meet up with a boring chick who's no fun and can't keep a convo for nothing and doesn't even wanna bang. And if I hand out with a girl like this, I won't hang out with her again unless she essentially tells me to come over for sex, which has never happened actually, lol.

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Breedlove you've summed up what I was already thinking and what I already know. I'm just being a little bitch, but when options are a few it's hard not to get dragged into that bs

Basically by being a real alpha male, and not ACTING like a fake one, and taking control of the interaction.

Are you modifying your behavior in some way trying to please HER?

Because, if you’re not, then she is in wasting your time. You go where you want to go, you do what you want to do, because you’re the alpha male, and she’s coming along for the ride.

If she doesn’t like being on your train she’s free to get off anytime she wants, and if she’s really interested in you she will come along for the ride, and if she did not she will get off very quickly.

It’s not really that complicated lol. it sounds like your way overthinking things.

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