When gaming and a girl mentions a potential flaw even a jokey is not to hit back with a witty like eg. I'm going to have wear flats on our date for me to reply with you'll have to bring your chicken fillets too ?

I've read it three times and I can't understand it. Rewrite it so we can help you.

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What do chicken filets have to do with shoes? Random =/= witty.

Aha for christ sake. Basically a girl was making a joke about my height.

Girl: i won't be able to wear heels on our date, ill just have to wear flats.
MY THOUGHTS: don't forget to bring your chicken fillets with you (this was going to be my reply as she has small boobs, chicken fillets are things girls put in their bra to make their boobs look bigger)i didn't actually say this, but i was wondering if i would be bad move

I don't know if you could class it as a shit test, but often in game its ignore/dont react, or take(what a girl says)it in a positive way and over exaggerate what she was saying. But I'm asking is it bad to throw back a cheeky line like the one i was planning to put.

If you can bring it with a smile then your response would be good but if the girl is the bitch drama type with no sense of humor it could be taken as an offense as girls are very self consious.

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Considering you're the first person I've ever heard call those things chicken filets, she'd have probably been as confused as the people reading this thread.

I don’t even bother trying to think of a comeback.

Whatever a woman says about me, that’s critical, I just agree with her.

She calls me a fat paid, I tell her you’re right.

She says I have no manners, I tell you’re right.

What is agreeing with her going to do? Give your power away, tell her you care what she thinks, by even taking the time to reply to something that stupid.

Honestly, if I really want to get back in a woman. I tell her, “I love myself, and I’m not to waste my time with a woman who’s going to put me down even for a second. I wouldn’t do the same to you. Why are you insulting me. How about this, you can insult me by your sucking my dick?.”

I like to turn it around, take control with the strongest alpha frame she’s ever seen, and turn the tables on her, where she’s the one throwing a tantrum, and I’m telling her to grow the fuck up.

Then I tell her I’m free to say and do whatever I want, and so is she, and if she doesn’t like that don’t deal with me.

You’d be surprised of this kind of dominance gets a woman’s pussy wet.

Even if she’s mad at you, guaranteed the next day she’ll go home and won’t be able to stop thinking about you, because she’s never met a guy with that kind of balls in her life.

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Aha well it's what we call them in the uk, it's a commen term.

Depends on what her energy was when she said it. If you're a short guy and she's taller, it could just be a simple comment matter of factly. Doesnt mean she's clowning you, just as a girl saying since you're walking in the park, she won't be able to wear heels. If she's saying it like that, no problem. If she's saying it in a joking/teasing way, sure you can tease back. If she's saying it to insult you, why date women like that? Whatever the case, you gotta take your insecurities out of it, and assess what she's doing objectively.

Thank you, someone with the right answer! Thank you for not saying what you were thinking OP! By fighting or throwing back insults, you show that you're bothered by little things!

Even the most beautiful girls I've seen have insecurities. Negging is only good if you can do it lightly and even then you have to be really careful because it can still be too much.

WWAVMD - what would a valuable male do? He would laugh it off and act like it was never said.

Remember by reacting to her, you're feeding into her, and giving her control (letting her know she affects you. Don't even try to rationalize it.

Just go out and say, Again, you're not being alpha saying, "how do I change my behavior so this woman will like me", because you're basically trading being a "nice guy" for a "pua"-you're still trying to change your behavior to WHATEVER will make this woman want to be with you.

You're right! An alpha male wouldn't even give her bullshit the time of day.

My ex-girlfriend's dad, him and I got along amazingly, and he did a lot to help me, but when I used to tell him my girlfriend (his daughter) was being stubborn, he said, "I've been with a lot of women, but if she wants to play games and isn't willing to work with you, you know what I say to a woman like that? NEXT."

Then let her either open up to having a 2-way communication, and be equals, where she can do what she wants, but so can YOU, and it's not your job to please her, or let her leave.

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