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PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2016 1:28 pm 
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Hey guys, how is it going? I am new in this forum and I have so many things that I can learn from you guys.

Ok, now straight to my "newbie problem". :lol:

I am interested to date this girl who just sits beside me in the office. From time to time I did find something to talk to her or digging out something to ask her (about work-related topic, eat-out places, trip... anything, the purpose is to get some conversations going) but generally our conversations are quite less mainly because I always run out of ideas how to start chatting up with her.

Also I think I do have a bit of confident issue as this girl is taller than me and I have never dated a tall girl before this. While I am okay to have a girlfriend who is taller than me but I'm not sure if she is okay for this matter.

Any constructive input is welcomed, thanks a lot guys!


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2016 1:47 pm 
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Dont shit where you eat.
Dont blow your chanses with this girl man.
When at work, focus on work.
Be polite.

The scarcity you're living in now makes your mind think about all the possible ladies in your life. And this might be one of the only girls ouside your family that you're having conversations with right now? Am I wrong?

So dont fool yourself.

Seek girls outside your workplace and build up abundence. Then MABY when you have 2 or 3 girlfriends you could try and take your co-worker out for coffe or lunch if you still want too.

But the tention this could create when you dont have any other girls in your life could destroy you.

Approach on the street, at the club, in the bar instead.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2016 8:50 pm 
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Dont shit where you eat.
Dont blow your chanses with this girl man.
When at work, focus on work.
Be polite.

The scarcity you're living in now makes your mind think about all the possible ladies in your life. And this might be one of the only girls ouside your family that you're having conversations with right now? Am I wrong?

So dont fool yourself.

Seek girls outside your workplace and build up abundence. Then MABY when you have 2 or 3 girlfriends you could try and take your co-worker out for coffe or lunch if you still want too.

But the tention this could create when you dont have any other girls in your life could destroy you.

Approach on the street, at the club, in the bar instead.
Plus Op, do not fuck your carrier while u r fucking your co worker. And never ever try to fuck your boss. It ruined my job once.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2016 11:06 pm 
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Dont shit where you eat.
Dont blow your chanses with this girl man.
When at work, focus on work.
Be polite.

The scarcity you're living in now makes your mind think about all the possible ladies in your life. And this might be one of the only girls ouside your family that you're having conversations with right now? Am I wrong?

So dont fool yourself.

Seek girls outside your workplace and build up abundence. Then MABY when you have 2 or 3 girlfriends you could try and take your co-worker out for coffe or lunch if you still want too.

But the tention this could create when you dont have any other girls in your life could destroy you.

Approach on the street, at the club, in the bar instead.
Plus Op, do not fuck your carrier while u r fucking your co worker. And never ever try to fuck your boss. It ruined my job once.

How did it ruin your job?


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2016 11:09 pm 
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OP, I have nothing against dating coworkers, but if you'r a newbie and dont have experience with women, dont practice stuff with your coworkers. Once you get experience with women and dating, then you'll know how to handle women who work with you with minimum problems.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 3:35 am 
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Coworkers are tough because of those laws and shit where you can’t say anything sexual or “uncomfortable”.

My advice would be to use the questions in this article:

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/peopl ... 72366.html

Think of it this way-if you get her pussy wet, like the way you feel when you get a boner looking at a hot girl, do you think she’s going to care how tall you are, do you think she’s just going to want your dominant dick inside her?

In regards to the coworker situation, you can slowly ease the conversation into asking questions about relationships, sex, and talk about things that would get her turned on, then when the moment feels right and you’ve established that connection that’s the time to ask her for date.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 7:38 am 
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Dont shit where you eat.
Dont blow your chanses with this girl man.
When at work, focus on work.
Be polite.

The scarcity you're living in now makes your mind think about all the possible ladies in your life. And this might be one of the only girls ouside your family that you're having conversations with right now? Am I wrong?

So dont fool yourself.

Seek girls outside your workplace and build up abundence. Then MABY when you have 2 or 3 girlfriends you could try and take your co-worker out for coffe or lunch if you still want too.

But the tention this could create when you dont have any other girls in your life could destroy you.

Approach on the street, at the club, in the bar instead.
Plus Op, do not fuck your carrier while u r fucking your co worker. And never ever try to fuck your boss. It ruined my job once.

How did it ruin your job?
They can torture you psychally or/and emotionally so u can bot resist cuz she is your boss. It means you are nothing except enemy or/and legal slave.

In addition, nowadays they r talkin toonmuch shit about MOBBING. So they can easly fire you bro without even explanation. Your ass's safety should come first.

In my case we dated but at the same time i gamed on other chicks so she get jelaous, the result is she said that we could not work together so i found mtself a new job and i d never ever game on chicks in mu department maybe if it is corporation like big company, u r free to game on other chicks.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 7:43 am 
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Worst enemy you could/would is a chick with broken heart under the tittle of Boss. Take care yourself :))

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 2:09 pm 
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Worst enemy you could/would is a chick with broken heart under the tittle of Boss. Take care yourself :))
I agree with this. 7.4 billion women in the world. Not worth it. Been there, and any guy who's had this situation go sour on the planet will tell you exactly the same.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 2:11 pm 
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Worst enemy you could/would is a chick with broken heart under the tittle of Boss. Take care yourself :))
I agree with this. 7.4 billion women in the world. Not worth it. Been there, and any guy who's had this situation go sour on the planet will tell you exactly the same.

Get her to the point where she's begging for YOU, then if one of you ever quits, open the doors is the best way to handle it.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 10:58 pm 
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You need to show intention. Starting random conversations isn't going to accomplish anything.


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