Hello everybody,

I need some help. I met this girl at university, we started to talk a bit and she seemed quite interested in me. I asked for her number and she gave it to me without any problem.

After some days, I text her, have a little conversation, and then ask her to go out for a drink. She said she was busy that day, and propose to meet again at university the day after. I didn't know if it was a kind way to tell she was not interested, so I decided not to insist on the meeting at university, to see if she really wanted to meet me or not. The day after she texted me, apparently because she really wanted to meet me. So we met, we had a quite flirty conversation(we were alone), and then obviously I asked her again to meet in the next days, and she said again she was quite busy.

Now, it's very clear that I'm interested in her, so she perfectly knows it. Why on earth she insists to meet me in university but she doesn't want to go out with me? I assume that if she wasn't interested at all she would never text me first asking to meet me... what do I have to do?

Thanks for the help!

Try meeting her at the university and leaving to another spot from there.

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Ok thanks, I will try! But based on what I told you do you think she could be interested?

She has at least some interest.

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Thank You for the advice! Unfortunately now, because of the Easter holidays there will be 10 days where we will not able to see each other. How can I use this situation to my advantage? What would it be the best thing to do(for example how much should I text her, etc...)?

Thanks!

P.S: I don't know at all if she is seeing someone else, or if she has a boyfriend... she didn't tell me so I didn't ask!

Don't ask. If she is responding to you, it's likely she doesn't.
Text light and flirty. 1/1. Quit thinking, just flow.

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Never ask if she has a boyfriend.

If she does and isn't interested, she'll slip that information with every chance.
If she does and is interested, you'll find out about him right before or after you get physical. At which point it's irrelevant.
If she does't and isn't interested, she'll lie and slip that information in with every chance.
If she doesn't and is interested, good for you.

Text asking if she overdosed on chocolate cheesecake over Easter.




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I've read it, very interesting! Only one question: how many times in 10 days do you think I have to text her to start a conversation? Like 2-3 times? Assuming that she probably will never text me first...unless I'm in the friend zone

Yeah, once every 3 days or so.

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Thank You...my fear is that so many days without seeing each other could kill the interest she has...anyway I'll do my best

I find the opposite. IMHO, I wouldn't text her a thing. She's gone for ten days. Let her wonder where the fuck you went. Meet other girls and text her when she gets back (she might text you first).

Just ask her to hang out. Don't talk about food or the weather.

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They've barely had a couple of conversations.
If you want her to feel the need for your attention, she needs to be invested enough to want it in the first place. I don't think she's at that level here.

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So I'm trying the following: flirty/light text every 3/4 days, trying to hook up as soon as possible at University...I'm trying not to put so much pressure on it, so she knows I'm interested but I can definitely live without her (I'm seeing another girl today)...