Ok now I know this is a pua forum not a dating forum but to see myself really progressing a girlfriend would do me wonders . she would improve my hygiene , occupy my time , ease on my insecurities , boost my confidence , create social proof for the other girls . But really I have a hard time getting one, some people always have a gf and some people almost never get one like me . I know I should start believing I can get but still belief is not enough . i really don't know why I don't have a gf yet .Any help would be appreciated ... flaming is also appreciated .. if you have any questions you need to ask (I bet you do ) feel free to ask and they would also be appreciated ...

How would having a girlfriend improve your hygiene?

Truthfully, it sounds like you believe you need a girlfriend to make your life better without any benefit in it for her.

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that's another aspect that I didn't mention .Yeah it would improve my higene , when I have someone I am constantly with that tells me my beard needs a trim or something she would be improving my hygene .

Do you realize that this sounds ridiculous? You should build your success with women from the inside out. It doesn't take much to look in the mirror and say you need to trim your beard, but you want to put that responsibility on someone else. Why would a woman want to be there just to occupy your time? Why would she want to be the reason you have confidence? Why would she want to introduce you to her friends? Seriously, what exactly is it that you have to offer? If your answer is nothing, then you have to work on yourself first then get a girlfriend.

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What do people usually offer ? What should I work on to get ?

Lol. You should have all those things in order before even thinking of getting a gf. Sort out your life first. No girl is going to want to be with someone like that.

I arguably have all of this handled . They just served as examples . The point is what extra things I need to offer her ...

You are listing all of the benefits that you'd get. Make a list of positive things you have to offer. Those would be the benefits for her.

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I have no idea what is worth offering to her ...

Nevermind what's worth offering her, what do you think you can offer her?

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You are old enough to grow a beard, but not mentally stable enough to ascertain when it needs to be trimmed?

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Well your basic hygiene should be there already.
You dont get a chick to finally have the inspiration to trim your beared or brush your teeth or what not in the mornings.
That should be a basic.
She wont be looking for a dude who she has to remind about that. Relationships eventually turn into a lot of work, so I dont think many girls are too keen to look for any extra.
I'd work on that first imo. Might also be quite the contributing factor to your problem OP.