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Basically, I need an understanding of how to gain attraction to a girl
You have that already. And here's why:
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He introduced me to this one girl, I danced wirh her, joked a bit, and I asked how much she weighs, she said it was offensive (she was drunk), I picked her up and she then left and said she had to smoke. Eventually she kept dancing with other guys and would glance over at me for validation I suppose, I didn't look. She danced near me, I was sitting down and she came next to me and asked about my hair asked if it's natural, I joked and why can't it be? Then I joked and said it was a wig and she started touching my hair. I pulled her away, maybe to harsh and said hands off the merchandise and after that she left. It was done light hearted.
Your only fuckup was playing hard to get when she was so obviously into you. She came back for more. Having them come back for more is your biggest green light ever, and you know that. But instead of isolating and putting her hands on the merchandise, you took them off. And that's fear of success.
You know you had it. But as you say you don't really feel worthy of it.
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So I kinda need a system. I'm very logical, so some steps to keep in mind can help.
You're a man. Of-course you're very logical, welcome to the rest of us. Game however is all about how you make a woman feel. So you can throw logic out the window. You need to learn how to stimulate emotion.
That's the difference between someone who understands "game" and someone who doesn't.