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OK so I have been on a few dates with this girl. We get on really well but she keeps giving me the old just wanna be friends crap. Tbh I've been a total pussy and haven't tried a lot of kino with her, a few playful pushes here and there. I tried kissing her after our last date and got the old turn the head cheek.
Thing is - I can tell she likes me, we talk a lot and get on well - even though she hasn't responded well to any physical signals. I think she thinks I'm a pussy. How do I show her I'm not and take things to the next level?
I'm a total noob so excuse my open ended question.
Lot's of guys have been there Bro. LOTS!
Having Oneitus is like being an alcoholic, sometimes it needs to be pointed out.
You are swirling in the evil hell pit of the 'Friend Zone'. The way out is seemingly so painful you cannot face it.
It's simple.
Step out.
Spending 40 hours per week in the friend zone will reward in zero benefits.
YOU have to be brave. You have to risk losing her. But it's really not that bad Bro, you may not believe me now, but there are more of her out there than Ford Taurus's.
Now, here is your step stool to climb out;
I want you to go to her and say, "I can't see you anymore (sniff), I can't be friends with you, and pretend that I don't dream about that hot ass! It's your fault (sniff), taunting me with your sexy body all the time!, I guess this is good buy!" Spin on your heel, tip your ass out the door, walk away, and MEAN IT!
Do not contact her again, unless she's practically begging for some dick. And if she doesn't. Oh well.
Go get another Taurus. Hell work on that anyway. Pursue other girls. NOW. TODAY!
Help me Obi Wan Kanobi you're my only hope. Be brave.
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