Hello. I'm 21 years old. There's a 27 year old chick from my studies that I befriended. We study together, been to places, had drinks etc'. She's slept at my place a couple of times, each of which involved some light sexual playing - mostly touching, and I jacked her off once. But she is always avoiding anything more than that, last time she let me touch her but not kiss her, the claim is that I'm too young for her and that she's used to dating guys over 35. Likes them rusty I guess
Now obviously she's attracted to me, otherwise there would've been any kind of a sexual contact.

I told her that I understand that she's used to old men (this is all half-humorously - I don't actually think 35 years is old lol) but I don't care for it since I have the maturity and mentality of a 35 year old - with the body of a young man. I said that I know that she likes to play these games just for entertainment but if she doesn't plan on anything happening it better stop altogether (many times she initiated the contact, e.g puts her leg between mine when we lay in bed and watch TV and stuff). She said fine but had a hard time complying.

I'm pretty sure she's just dilemma'ed since she's basically looking for a connection that's good enough for marriage (she lived with and almost married with 3 guys in the past) and although I'd be fine with getting serious with her- marriage is off the table for the next 5 years. So she's probably not sure of her willingness to get involved due to these circumstances.

What I assume is that the right thing to do is to let it cool off and be a bit cold, yet still friendly to her. And to show no sexual compliance if she tries anything. Am I missing something? Is there something else? What about just going out with her for a beer?
Thanks.

Get her worked up sexually, she wants the D.

Here is the vibe your going for: "I don't know. One minute we were hanging, and then the next thing I knew we had just had sex. It kind of just happened."

That way she is denying responsibility for our sexual and romantic decisions.

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I know she wants it. She let me masturbate to her but not kiss her, even not on neck or ears. We talked about dominance and she says she's dominant in bed. I'm more of a recessive type. Maybe I should try to make an oral sex move on her?

Get Netflix, or rent the movie "Secretary" with James Spader. Then follow suit.

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I hope this isn't how you dirty talk to girls... That could be the big issue here. You sound like a robot dude.

I don't ask for a blow job because the word job makes it sound like its strenuous physical labor. Instead, I ask for mouth hugs.

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Oh it wasn't dirty talk, just a conversation about sex.

I do it more like whispering 'You like it when I rub your clit?' in her ear.

Well the girl is essentially gaming me.
I think yesterday night was the third or fourth time in which she slept at my bed and I jacked her off, after which we went to sleep. She was sending me sexual signs all day but she's obviously enjoying this position being very dominant in bed whereas I'm really recessive in that area, meaning that I have an uncontrollable craving for satisfying women prior to myself. Still, I need to find a way inside this. Suggestions?

Satisfying her first doesn't make you recessive. Not having any regard for your own needs makes your recessive.
How the fuck is a girl gonna sleep in my bed for times, get off every time, and then roll over and sleep?
Lmao. Seriously.

This has nothing to do with her being dominant or whatever the fuck. It has everything to do with you not giving two shits about yourself.

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I always tried to escalate it into more but she wasn't cooperative. Don't get me wrong, satisfying a girl without getting any does turn me on in a twisted way, but once or twice would be sufficient. So... What now?

Quit complying, until your needs are met. Make it clear she's not your only option!
HAVE OTHER OPTIONS.

You stick the slut up on a throne, and wonder why they act the part of Queen Bitch? WTF

She treats you this way, because YOU let her. "OMG I got to touch a pussy!"

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Pretty much that.

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My in depth texting & dating guide.
There's no such thing as shit-tests.
How to keep a girl.

Yo I will flip that bitch over and fuck the shit out of her ass! Look man why are you fingering this hoe and not getting no pussy out of the deal our a good dick sucking !? First of all if she is in your bed and you are fingering her that gives you all the right to fuck her without a rape charge now next time you finger this bitch give her the D no matter how much she says no fuck that bitch .

From a legal standpoint, this isn't true. At least not in the United States.

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