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I'm beginning to have another view on this. Shit is fishy and not adding up. I can see this being a girl who fell out of love, was selfish and is now manipulative to ease her conscience after leaving. But looking deeper, I have to ask, why would a chick change her passwords and bank stuff before a break up? This means she'd assume you'd do something and that you'd pry after she left. That tells me you're that type, added to the fact that you even found out she had changed the passwords (thats not something you'd just stumble across without snooping). Yeah, you checked her shit, you have a history of doing this. So she takes actions that would suggest you're controlling, and wont take a break up peacefully. Which with the denial of the situation on your part, failure to ask relevant questions, I'm inclined to believe.
My words may be harsh but just an honest opinion. Could very well be a chick who left in a manipulative, fucked up way. Could very well be she's sucking a dick now. But could also be a chick who had to leave like this because her bf couldnt be honest about the relationship, would snoop through her shit and would kick her out the moment she said she was unsure. All I know is that if a bf checks emails, would want her to cry for the makeup sex and cant communicate maturely, a girl is bound to run. And if a girl leaves like this with 2 days notice, and has to change passwords, there is something you've shown her to make her that paranoid. Even a shitty gf would just leave but not worry you'd be checking emails. That says that some of this, stems from your actions and you need to be honest with yourself if you dont want to have it happen like this again with someone else.
No.
Not snooping. But we had each others phone passwords and we freely used phones to do whatever lke look something up if one was in the bedroom and other in lounge, we would use that one. No biggie.
Previously she would always ask me to help her send emails and log in to hers from home to do stuff. I never needed to snoop nor get paranoid about her ever. I never checked her emails as she is the focused type and it isnt something that i do. I dont want to be in that position of suspision and distrust.
I am cool and relaxed. Im not up in someones business and controlling AT ALL. I give completed freedom to do everything everytime.
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i meant that he should first understand to classify women as bitch, good for LTR, good for FWB etc. If u give too much value ti her which is more than she deserves, could fuck you up out of a sudden.