Jack did a great response but I just had to rant. Why the fk are yall always so afraid to lose a girl?!?! I read these threads and I think, is there a shortage of women I dont know about? Stop caring about whether a woman is interested, or thinks xyz about you. All that matters to me is is she making me happy and fulfilling my needs. If she wants an open relationship and I want a regular one, I just go find a woman who wants what I want. Yall need to stop following women and compromising what you want. Life is too short for that, and I'm not wasting a minute accepting less than I want. Ironically, if you dont give a fuck about what women think and you value your happiness and not her pussy, it makes things much much easier. Seriously guys, you have like 25000 days in life. And most of us have under 20,000 by now. Stop wasting time accepting shit you dont want.