Lately, I have been dating quite a bit. I have told these girls "hey, I am going to do this tonight, and then I am going to a concert this day".


I told them I would hang out with them a little before then. I didn't say the whole day. I even asked each girl "hey so what's the plan for tomorrow, what do you wanna do" and if they don't give me a plan, i tell them, fine I will just come over for dinner.

The other girl, I told her it's fine if you don't come by tonight, but later on I will be out and about so just keep in touch during text. She said she was tired so she was gonna stay home.


The second girl started drinking at home and texting me...but she called me at the bar...i told her that I am out and about but what's up. She said nvm. I didn't pursue her further. She got over it though, thankfully, but I did tell her my plans for the night if she didn't come over, oh well.


The first one, I asked her the day before what did she wanna do, didn't have concrete plans, so I said I will come over for dinner. I planned for two hours for her to take up my time. I was busy earlier with cleaning my messy ass house and cooking dinner for the week. Ok.

She then asks me that she has errands to do and if I would like to tag along. I said no, because I am busy keeping shit clean because I had a long ass work week. Plus, I want to go to the gym later since it has been a struggle because of work. Next thing i know, i get the text "but I thought today was for us" ....

so am I the dick here ? I asked before, if she said , lets spend the day together, I would have found a way to do so. But she just asked me when I was in the middle of something on the day of and started getting all pouty. I have shit to do. I made time for her. She wants to be spontaneous and ask me out earlier, I told her sorry but I have to get errands done myself. I am an adult, not in college. Thoughts ?

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LOL. PUA Problems (Like first world problems.)

Lol seriously. One day I will create the two girls wanna fuck me at the same time but don't wanna share me thread. One day

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I don't see how you'd be a dick for being mindful of your own time. Unless you're doing it on purpose, which I doubt.

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Nah, I just like to make use of the time I have. I just needed to rant about it. Just annoys me when girls do that, but eh, what are gonna do.

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Why would it "annoy" you?

Lol, the whole girls guilt tripping and seeing if whatever you are doing is more important than them. I remember my ex used to try to prevent me going to the gym by offering sex. Claims it's exercise too... or when she wanted to cuddle for awhile and I am like, well, I want to go play some video games now.... the whole girls try to make you feel guilty if you choose to do something other than be with them, even if the day before you guys were chilling most of the day. "oh i want to be a priority since I make you a priority". I guess I don't like the overexcessive neediness.


But that's my experience, might not be relevant to most people.

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No, I’ve had experience with a lot of different women and it sounds like these women just want to wrap you around their fingers, or whatever man there with.

You notice in every situation she is trying to take control, and when you wouldn’t give it to her, she eventually started getting all pouty.

You’re doing everything you can, but you’re not revolving your life around her because she wants to have an ambiguous schedule.

If you ever let either of these women have control, it’s not all women, but these of the table women who were gonna lead you around a string.

Why do you think she asked you out? Because you’re demonstrating that your real man and you’re not going to put up with her bullshit.

No matter what happens, you need to move yourself into the power position with her, where you’re in control. You’re on the right track, and keep maintaining them my way or the highway attitude.

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because these women are trying to play games with him, and when they can't stick to a schedule they expect him it is come running like a puppy.

when you start dealing with real women, you'll realize this gets annoying very quickly, because I can tell right now he's the type of guy who would never do that to her, and all he's asking for is basic respect, and she doesn't even have the decency to consider his feelings, his needs are is situation, and she wants him to completely consider hers.

That's why it annoys him.

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I am so glad I made this post just as a reminder. Just a couple hours ago I texted a girl I haven't seen in awhile, I need to see you!


Of course, she suggests to meet up within the hour for her lunch break. I am like ehhhh, idk. And naturally "Oh don't complain that we don't get to see each other then"


I put this woman in her place, telling her that I had shit to do and it was short notice. She became submissive again and suggested an alternative, that she could postpone her lunch break so i had time to see her. I said alright that will work. And just like that I dealt with the dilemma of being rushed to meet her and handled it beautifully. Went out on the date and smacked her on the ass and told her I will see her later.

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Lol. That was alot for nothing really. Dont text I need to see you! The ! suggests urgency. And then saying ehhh Idk? Come on lol. Its like you're complicating simple things. I need to see you... when are you free? Oh I cant do it an hour..how about in 2 hours? Keep it simple man. No need to have to put someone in their place if you just communicate properly.

Hahaha, I tend to do that. Hot and cold my way into their hearts. I just looked at my messages and it was "bruhhhhhh, i have to see you"


Same shit. Reason I did that is because I have hooked up with her a couple times and it has been sooo long so I felt like I am allowed to be sounding a little needy. Besides she has been trying to see me for a week but I have a busy life.


I will keep that in mind, my communication skills tend to get lazy.

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