I think this is part of the game that has been holding me back.

I could hook up with girls or talk just fine but when it comes to anything else I feel like the girl just forgets me.

I'm thinking i come off as just another guy and looking on advice on how to convey higher value or if you think there could be another piece i am missing i am all ears

Example: Average girl i met at a party spoke to a bit maybe a total of 10 minutes the whole night.
Added on facebook small chat I feel like this is a girl i could at least go on a date with.

When you meet a girl, the last thing you want her thinking is that you'll contact her on facebook, a text, or a phone call. You want her to feel good about herself because she likes how she feels around you. This is done by getting her to convey higher value to you and you recognizing that value. If you're trying to convey value, you're just qualifying yourself to her.

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So in terms of me going up to her and making the first point of contact how would i demonstrate that?

It's all in the conversation. Get her talking...she'll want to talk about herself. When she gives you something about herself that she's proud of, you acknowledge it and get her talking more about it.

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Look girls in the eyes with lust and get your cock hard when interacting with girls face-to-face. That is all the value you need-- a hard cock.

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But is it?

If you can't make your dick hard, you have no reproductive value. If you can't make your dick hard because of low testosterone, you're not very competitive which means you have zero social productivity value. If you can't make your dick hard because you have diabetes, you have very low health value.

Do you think girls will find you sexually attractive if you can't make your dick hard? Do you think your wife will not divorce you if you have a limp dick and are incapable of fathering children?

In effect, the bottom line with masculine value ultimately lies with a hard, throbbing cock.

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The best way to convey value is to actually spend your days creating value for yourself.

When its real you don't have to say it. Saying it is only making up for how unreal it actually is.

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Wear nicer clothes
Get a better hair cut
Take better care of yourself
Fix your posture
Work on vocal projection
Maintain eye contact
Smile (Not creepily)

This all day every day.

I would extend this "saying it" sentence to most parts of interacting with a woman. She should FEEL it from you (your interest, your value, and everything else) without you having to convey it in words.

For example instead of walking up and saying "I thought you were so cute", show it in how you look at her and speak with her. She knows. Believe me she knows.